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My parents keep putting me down and saying I am insane...what should I do??

Q.   My parents keep telling me i am insane, i have problems, keep putting me down, i am scared because i know if they keep saying it then it will drive me to insanity... What shall i do? thanks chris...

A.   2 December 2007: Find help. Call a help-line or go to your school counsellor. Find someone that can give you better perspective about life and relationships, and maybe that can talk to your parents about teenagers and parenting.... (read in full...)

How can I make a girl laugh without trying too hard??

Q.   I've never had a girlfriend but I'm building up my confidence thanks to some counselling. I just have a set back. Every time I ask what girls like in a guy they said 2 things, 1 - Confidence 2 Someone who can make them laugh I'm starting to im...

A.   2 December 2007: Relax. Once you'll find someone you feel comfortable and that you can be openly yourself without being afraid of doing "something stupid" or being silly, then you'll be funny. Because you'll be yourself. Don't judge yourself thinking that you're n... (read in full...)

How can I make a girl laugh without trying too hard??

Q.   I've never had a girlfriend but I'm building up my confidence thanks to some counselling. I just have a set back. Every time I ask what girls like in a guy they said 2 things, 1 - Confidence 2 Someone who can make them laugh I'm starting to im...

A.   2 December 2007: Relax. Once you'll find someone you feel comfortable and that you can be openly yourself without being afraid of doing "something stupid" or being silly, then you'll be funny. Because you'll be yourself. Don't judge yourself thinking that yo... (read in full...)

I love her so I do not want her to regret taking this step! - as I am going away for 2 yrs to school. She is willing to have her first time with me.

Q.   im 17 my gf is 14 weve been together for 7 months and she wants me to take her virginity but im going off to school in august of 2008 for at least 2 years but our love is true. please help i love her so much but i dont want any regrets ...

A.   23 November 2007: I think your girlfriend is REALLY young! 2 years is a long time, and people and situations change constantly. If your feelings are truly LOVE, then waiting a couple of months and seeing how the distance relationship thing works out for you guys... (read in full...)

Still the One

Q.   Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...

A.   23 November 2007: You need to love yourself enough that people around you will love you to. If you have no respect for yourself, people won't. They can't take care of you, or make your situation better, or even make your past disappear. You are the only one that can ... (read in full...)

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