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Advice for talking to my parents about being bisexual

Q.   I am bisexual but dont know how to tell my parents. I dont have a clue what their veiws on the LGBT community are and cant find out because i CANT talk to them about love or relationships or that AT ALL so i dunno what 2 do cuz... yeh. Should i ...

A.   7 August 2014: Honestly, the fact that you're between 13 and 15 should have no bearing on the situation. But, always, like any sexual orientation, make sure you feel it's the right choice to be that way for you, and make sure that you're at a place where you think ... (read in full...)

I'm a shy, inexperienced, guy.

Q.   So let me start off by saying that I am a 24-year-old virgin (sad I know). Anyway, there is this girl at my job that I'm really attracted to, sometimes I think I catch her looking at me (I could be wrong, but having been in a similar sitch before ...

A.   4 August 2014: Ask her straight up if she wants to get some coffee or something sometime. It's a sure fire way to let her know of your interest and private enough to be more than just friends. I don't like the attitude that being a virgin is a bad thing. Altho... (read in full...)

Ex wants post-break-up sex, is it right or wrong?

Q.   My ex and I broke up 8 months ago, I am 18, whilst she is 16. The UK allows legality of this relationship. So she's decided that she wants 'post break up' sex. She never understood my reasons for leaving, although they were as long as your arm. So I ...

A.   16 June 2012: Thanks for the good answers. I'm going to avoid as you have said I should. ... (read in full...)

Stared At by A School Employee... Need Advice!

Q.   So there's guy at my school (he works at the school) and I'm a female student in high school. For some reason during lunch he stares at me. When he is outside supervising kids, he stares at me. Outside in the pick-up and bus areas he stares at me. ...

A.   28 March 2012: First of all, this being the US and you being 13-15 I think this is ridiculous. To me the man sounds as if he could be a pervert or pedophile. Don't associate with him in that way. Remember you are underage and he is clearly in his 20's. So the fact ... (read in full...)

I'm confused about my sexuality

Q.   Hi I find myself attracted to girls all the time, and obsessed with lesbian porn. But I also enjoy gay porn, and have had gay experiences, but I never look at a guy and think, hmm he's hot. What does this make me?...

A.   5 February 2012: This makes you unsure. You experiment with those things to gauge whether or not you like them or not. The fact you don't find men 'hot' is probably a good indication that you aren't homosexual. ... (read in full...)

What is with men being attracted to teenagers?

Q.   I've seen a few questions on here about this. Guys if you're in your twenties why don't you want to date someone your own age? Why do you want to be with someone who hasnt even finished school? Is it because it's forbidden?...

A.   19 December 2011: The simple answer to this question is that men don't want underage girls. But as soon as a girl turns 18, in the USA or 16 in the UK, they can become sexually active. Men like girls who are young, and have the energy. Young women are generally ... (read in full...)

I was interested in her but she liked showing me that other men are interested in her too. Why is she doing this?

Q.   I arrange to go out with a woman who i know from our karate club, she helps out. We meet then several times during the night she says men are staring at her, i naturally look but cant see, i think no more of it. She seems interested in me we hav ...

A.   19 December 2011: Personally, I think this woman is interested in you my friend. Women do have an uncanny habit of trying to wrap men around their fingers, it's their nature. I reckon she is also trying to see if you are a viable individual for her to be dating. If ... (read in full...)

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