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Fiance lied about her age

Q.   I've been with my fiance for 2.5 years and we are legally getting married in 2 weeks. When filling out the paperwork i noticed she kept writing the wrong age. It was only a year difference but later that day she told me she us actually a year older ...

A.   24 September 2016: While a lie is a legitimate cause for concern, I can see how the cultural aspect could make a big difference. You didn't say where your fiance is from, but I am currently living in a country where everyone says their age as 1-2 years different from ... (read in full...)

How can something feel so right yet be so wrong? In love with a married man who loves me too, but also loves his wife and wont leave her.....

Q.   I don't know what to do... I don't even know how to start. I never been on any of these sites before.. this is also a long story. I met this man at a work place..once I was working there he texted me and would flirt just a little (he had my numbe...

A.   30 October 2013: This is terrible and it is not only 'sort of cheating' it is absolutely cheating. Think of his wife. If the tables were turned and YOU were the married one and your husband was messing around, kissing, flirting and inappropriately touching a ... (read in full...)

My jealousy and insecurities are ruining my relationship

Q.   I create drama in my relationship because I'm insecure and jealous. And I'm on the last leg with my boyfriend because he hates being treated like he's done something wrong just because I feel insecure and paranoid. Any advice on how I can get past ...

A.   30 October 2013: As an extremely jealous and insecure person who nearly ruined my own marriage, I can say that it is possible to change your ways. I used to snoop on my husband, check his phone, his emails and his social media profiles. I was so jealous that I c... (read in full...)

5 years of my life stolen by a lying cheat

Q.   My whole life has just fallen apart. I have been with my long term boyfriend for 5 years but things have only got really serious in the last 18 months, we have discussed marrige and he has been concidering moving in with me ...I have never met his ...

A.   29 October 2013: Drop him. Don't let him come over. If you must speak to him, do so over the phone or through e-mail. Scum like this guy will only use your emotions against you, and you do not want to end up stuck with him because he pulled at your heart strings ... (read in full...)

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