Separated for 2 years my husband has moved on but I can't
Q. Hello I’m hoping someone can give me some words of hope here. My husband and I have been separated 2 years now and I feel no better than I did on day one. He has moved on, has a new partner and seems happy most of the time. Normally we get ...
A. 8 June 2020: I really feel for you, I do. I can feel how upsetting this is as I read further into your question. When we don't have a new life of our own, we hyperfocus on the past, and the people that are experiencing what we would like to experience. We g... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my older girlfriend?
Q. Hey everyone, I guess I am considering breaking up with my girlfriend of 2.5 years. For the past 6 months I feel we have been drifting apart romantically. Sex went from once every 2 weeks to once every 2 months. I stopped sleeping in the same b...
A. 8 June 2020: Wow. I was really run through the mud on this. I do appreciate the effort and the honesty. If I was to write every detail about the relationship and paint myself in a more positive light, this would have been much too long. I want to lay a d... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my drug addicted friend's girlfriend
Q. Hey guys! I'll try be brief. So I have a friend who is going psychotic due to his drug use that he denies to a psychotic extent. He twists reality and makes everyone his enemy if they try to confront him (I have tried a few times and he angrily l...
A. 9 December 2017: Thanks guys, I was a little spun out when asking this question. I think you are 100% right Denizen, you can't just jump from one relationship to another, especially one like this. I am choosing to give them space. I have offered my help if needed. ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 22 February 2015: Thanks janniepeg, you're right and im so tired of this. i feel like it just needs to click. ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 21 February 2015: Ill reply to both of the last comments i had casual sex ONCE and hated myself after and somehow that throws out the values i have lived by my entire life both before and after that!? That was right out of a long term relationship as i tried so ha... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 20 February 2015: @passionatelynumb
I can completely relate to a lot of that, i sometimes even knot up when i see a girl in very revealing clothes! id die in a strip club. it wouldn't be so bad if there was a balance of people like us but its like we are a rare bree... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 19 February 2015: @passionatelynumb I really appreciate your effort in the answer and trying to help me and even if it isn't something comfortable to think about i will consider all of it, however, i will still defend my position. I do feel like we have differ... (read in full...)
Young male, older female, advice for breaking news of relationship to her kids
Q. Hey! I'll get right to it... I'm in a relationship with a woman in her 50s and im in my 20s (male). I started it since i fell in love with who she is after knowing her for a few years and the love is mutual. I just need advice on how to tell...
A. 19 February 2015: @ So_Very_Confused + Situation Update
thanks for your answer!
i dont believe in "the one", i believe there are multiple 'ones' in most lifetimes for different 'yous' over time but i cant just forget about everything i build with someone easily a... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 18 February 2015: @WiseOwlE
you're making some bold assumptions here, but real possibilities for some people. it is not about suppressed resentment for me, its about resistance to the experience of other men outside of my own value system that im looking to let g... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 17 February 2015: they still deserve love, i meant it in the way of overcoming other obstacles such as the past with love, especially if all is well in the present. ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 17 February 2015: @passionatelynumb It's a horrible feeling i know but i have felt it in all my relationships. When i was a virgin and she wasn't, when another was molested, as well as my current situation. Its something i have no choice but to face and life will kee... (read in full...)
Young male, older female, advice for breaking news of relationship to her kids
Q. Hey! I'll get right to it... I'm in a relationship with a woman in her 50s and im in my 20s (male). I started it since i fell in love with who she is after knowing her for a few years and the love is mutual. I just need advice on how to tell...
A. 17 February 2015: @tisha-1 I didnt really think it through, i feel like all i did was participate in my scenario and my emotions and it fell into place. I've already lived with her for 2 years for work reasons so the moving in happened first. She experienced my p... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 17 February 2015: Thanks for your responses! i really appreciate people like you out there who genuinely care and want to help.
i've also done a bit of reading since asking about sexual perspectives and i realise i have the 'romantic' view (sex saved as a gift for ... (read in full...)
Young male, older female, advice for breaking news of relationship to her kids
Q. Hey! I'll get right to it... I'm in a relationship with a woman in her 50s and im in my 20s (male). I started it since i fell in love with who she is after knowing her for a few years and the love is mutual. I just need advice on how to tell...
A. 17 February 2015: Thank you for your responses!
@ Midnight shadow
Unfortunately my tongue in cheek didn't come through in text, the whole survival thing was just trying to make light of the situation though i cant deny that its a possibility. Eventually im sure the... (read in full...)
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