Help with boyfriend please. He's been increasingly distant, with no contact for past 5 days.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We don't live together but see each other a few times a week and will stay over at the other's house on the weekends. Things the last 6 months or so have been so horrible. We basicall...
A. 1 September 2013: I just don't know what to do right now. There isn't really anything I can do except drive over to his house, but I'm not going to do that unexpected, especially after 5 days of no contact. If he wanted to see me, he'd have found a way (he always ... (read in full...)
Is it really true? Once a cheater always a cheater?
Q. Can people be truly sorry for cheating and never go on to do it again? Or is it a case of once a cheater always a cheater? I've cheated in the past knew it was wrong and never done it again. My boyfriend of four years cheated in the b...
A. 22 February 2013: I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. I've cheated one time and it was out of hurt/anger and was strictly to get back at someone who'd done me wrong. It was a BIG mistake and I've never done it, nor would do it, again. It was something ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is emotionally distancing from me due to fights over insecurity issues
Q. I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. We've had our ups and downs like every couple but things have changed. Over the last few months there's been a real distance between us. I'm mostly to blame due to jealous and insecurity issues that started caus...
A. 17 February 2013: Thanks for your replies. Example: let's say he went 2 days with NC.. and when he finally decided to make contact, out of hurt and anger, I'd ignore it and do the same in return. I'd do this so he'd have more space and could make sure I was what h... (read in full...)
He's posting on Facebook that he misses me but doesn't reply to my texts....what should I do?
Q. So, I posted a question yesterday about pushing my bf away with my jealousy and insecurities, if you read it thanks so much.. Here's where I am now: he text me last night, after 24 hours of NC, and wished me a happy vday and said he loved and missed ...
A. 15 February 2013: He contacted me today and has decided to take me back. I've realized that I'd rather be with him than without, and my attitude has caused me to be on the verge of losing the person that I love. When he did take time to contact me I was taking it for ... (read in full...)
I pushed my boyfriend away with my insecurity and jealousy. I want him back!
Q. My boyfriend, of 2.5 years, has basically had enough of my drama and won't even reply to my texts now. I've been super jealous and insecure and am constantly accusing him of cheating on me without reason. 90% of things I think I'm right about he ...
A. 15 February 2013: I haven't heard anything since his valentine text last night, but I didn't reply back so that's to be expected. What move should I make now? I'm afraid if I text him something back he won't reply and I'm afraid if I don't reply with something he'll ... (read in full...)
I pushed my boyfriend away with my insecurity and jealousy. I want him back!
Q. My boyfriend, of 2.5 years, has basically had enough of my drama and won't even reply to my texts now. I've been super jealous and insecure and am constantly accusing him of cheating on me without reason. 90% of things I think I'm right about he ...
A. 15 February 2013: He just contacted me and said "happy valentines day my sexy woman. i love and miss you with all my heart. i just got home. jumping in the shower." Even though this is a positive I'm afraid to say anything back in fear that he'll become distant ... (read in full...)
I pushed my boyfriend away with my insecurity and jealousy. I want him back!
Q. My boyfriend, of 2.5 years, has basically had enough of my drama and won't even reply to my texts now. I've been super jealous and insecure and am constantly accusing him of cheating on me without reason. 90% of things I think I'm right about he ...
A. 14 February 2013: Okay, but at the same time he contacts me when he thinks I'm going to finally move on to someone else. He's ignoring me now, and has this week, but he saw something yesterday (innocent) and made first contact by text freaking out that I was going ... (read in full...)
I pushed my boyfriend away with my insecurity and jealousy. I want him back!
Q. My boyfriend, of 2.5 years, has basically had enough of my drama and won't even reply to my texts now. I've been super jealous and insecure and am constantly accusing him of cheating on me without reason. 90% of things I think I'm right about he ...
A. 14 February 2013: I don't really know which direction to take now. I'm so confused as to what to do, or how to even begin once figuring it out. I've never been this way in past relationships, I've also never been in love with any of them, either. It took 30 years fo... (read in full...)
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