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Hi All!

I am a hopeless romantic which is what led me to this site. I am also a realist. This is quite a conundrum to live with. All things considered I've done well balancing the two.

No matter how well we do or how self assured we are, we all need help sometimes. No man is an island. To help you I will answer a few. When you see me feel free to reply too. :)

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Do I have a real mental problem?

Q.   Hi everyone, this is going to be long, so bear with me. Its not a relationship question, more of a mental state question. I have never given much thought to this, but recently due to the change in my lifestyle the problem has become apparent....

A.   5 November 2008: I wouldn't exactly label you a sociopath but yes, you would definitely benefit from seeing a therapist. Something you've experienced leads you to believe you deserve or need to feel this way. The best equipped to help you handle this would be a ... (read in full...)

I want to save my marriage so how can I make him understand that I love only him?

Q.   Around a year ago I finally married my first love of six years. We have started dating very young, well at least I was (I was 14) and he was a few years older then me. Through out these years, I’ve went through so much drama its crazy. I am a Ch...

A.   29 October 2008:  I have been that route and this is what I learned...You cannot save a marriage all by yourself. Marriage is a covenant between your husband, God, and yourself. If you have asked both God and your husband for forgiveness and you are truly sorry ... (read in full...)

I feel as if I'm being used and want to end this AGAIN. What do you think?

Q.   I'm engaged to a woman from Eastern Europe who is over 20 years younger than me. (That's a bad sign, I know). I live in North America, so our relationship is pretty unusual and we hardly ever see each other. I have known her for almost three years. ...

A.   29 October 2008:  You already have the answer to the question you ask. She is completely insignificant. The more important issue is why you allow anyone to treat you this way. Forget about her and spend some time learning to love yourself. If you don't know ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever felt 'cursed' in life? Any insights?

Q.   I know, its a hard question, but I wonder ,if anybody has anything to say about this question. Maybe, also if you can recommend me an other site , what is more suitable,for spiritual dilemmas like that. So I wonder if anybody ever been felt ...

A.   27 October 2008:  Everyone feels that way at one time or another. We all get the "why me syndrome". I think Les Brown addressed it best when he said "why not you". We all go through rough patches in life, some longer and/or more serious than others but consider ... (read in full...)

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