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writes: I know, its a hard question, but I wonder ,if anybody has anything to say about this question. Maybe, also if you can recommend me an other site , what is more suitable,for spiritual dilemmas like that. So I wonder if anybody ever been felt cursed?I used to be very skeptical, and critical about people who had such a thought. Don't think , I don't know about positive thinking ,and how it effects you, when you go negative. But the intensity ,and frequency of my unfortunate happenings seemed like an attack on me personally. I didn't think this right away, I just started to think that, after ,all my effort looked useless. ''Cause and effect'' looked absolutely not working in my life., I was truly not responsible at least 80% of my tragedies. So i wonder ,as I feel very alone with this, does anybody ever felt that way? Thanks so much, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Thanks.I `was thinking that myself, that is like a test, of some kind. It is not just normal, I'm sure about that. I know what is the difference, when it's just a passing phase.We need to trust our intuition, otherwise we can't navigate..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Read SHAMANISM AND HEALING maybe you are a healer experiencing . testing.... every button is pressed Just be brave and positive and remember healers often have to learn to heal themselves before they can heal others! Do not fear the experience of fear and the unknown. Try going to a spiritualist church for advice if you feel too out of sink. But above all do not worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Thanks, I know I shouldn't think hat, and for a long time I refused ,that idea... I'm really not a witchcraft kind of person, but when my life took a direction in to the darkness, with out my permission, I truly started to run out of options.
It wasn't my first choice, but a closest chance.. Sorry ifit sounds too dark. I wanted to know if anybody else feels that way. , and I still do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Hi
Your only cursed if YOU believe you are cursed...auto suggestion you know like vodoo. Stop taking things on your shoulders and thinking you are resposible for everything bad that happens.
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reader, 14Luv  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Everyone feels that way at one time or another. We all get the "why me syndrome". I think Les Brown addressed it best when he said "why not you". We all go through rough patches in life, some longer and/or more serious than others but consider this...everything happens for a reason. Stop for a moment and assess your station in life. Are you missing a lesson you should be learning? Are you being prepared for a larger task? Are you gaining experiences that will enable you to help someone else? Even if you do not have the answer to these questions now, you will soon. Spend more quiet time...meditation...prayer...or whatever your method. If your mind is clear and open what you are meant to know will come to you when it is time. Don't be discouraged, be patient and rely on your faith. This is much easier said than done but you will be stronger when this phase passes. Even though it feels like it believe me you are not cursed and certainly not alone. Hope this helps.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Yes, most of us probably do feel that way at times. Stick it out and watch for doors of opportunity.
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