Can anyone help me understand my friend's behavior?
Q. I've known her for 8 years and lately she has been behaving very strangely! I've known there is a big void between us, not alot of closeness anymore like we use to be and usually when I say I care for her opinion most about how she feels she closes ...
A. 24 December 2019: @WiseOwlE - I had to read your second post atleast 3 times because the first time I was in awe and a state of realisation. I believe you're definitely on the money with this one! I know she is someone who will go for anything that's close and ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me understand my friend's behavior?
Q. I've known her for 8 years and lately she has been behaving very strangely! I've known there is a big void between us, not alot of closeness anymore like we use to be and usually when I say I care for her opinion most about how she feels she closes ...
A. 17 December 2019: Thank you for your answers! I have known she is bisexual for awhile and had assumed this would not affect me but I realise now I am in denial that she probably has feelings for me. However if she has feelings for me or is attracted to me then why is ... (read in full...)
My ex is at college with me and he comes up and tries to start arguments with me. How should I act?
Q. Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, because we basically went through a lot of arguments the last couple of months. It's been a really stressful relationship and very toxic, and every time during a fight he would blame me for ...
A. 13 December 2019: He sounds awful! and sounds like he has some personal issues of his own. You are definitely not in the wrong, you are trying to make things work by communicating correctly and he does not want to reciprocate. You can report him to the university ... (read in full...)
My date made a remark that I'm wondering if its a red flag
Q. I've been on a date with a man, he had never been on a date or a relationship before (he's 24), and we brought up a topic about exe's and cheating. I was turned off when he told me that "A man cheats because his girlfriend/wife isn't providing him ...
A. 13 December 2019: It sounds like he has very unrealistic expectations and poor assumptions of how a relationship functions. It sounds like he believes its a woman's job to keep the man happy and grounded, you know just like they use to back in the 1950s when women ... (read in full...)
Is my mother trying to create drama in my life for her amusement?
Q. I've come to realise my mother may perhaps be creating drama in my life to fuel her amusement, however, I could be wrong. I'm 22 years old and my mother is my go-to person for advice for everything. Many incidents have occurred where I feel she is ...
A. 15 April 2019: Thank you for your advice! My mother has always been apart of my life and has been through alot with me. She has helped me with different problems, and has given good advice and bad. I only just noticed recently drama has really settled down, ... (read in full...)
How can I fix the relationship I have with my mother?
Q. It's rare me and my mother ever have an emotional, bonding conversation; I try and start a conversation with her but she just says "Yeah" or "Mhmm" or something to cut the conversation short. The only time we actually have a conversation is when ...
A. 3 April 2018: Thanks WiseOwlE! I didn't think this was a good place to ask this sort of question but I wanted good answers ... and this is where I usually come for the best answers on the internet lol! My biological father is still in my life, I see him about ... (read in full...)
How do I react. He ignored me but is now dating my best friend
Q. If I met a guy in a club, asked him out, he gave me his number, I texted twice, he never responded. Months later I discover he is now having sex with my best friend. How should I react?...
A. 3 April 2018: Honestly sounds like you dodged a BIG bullet! Sounds like a complete douchebag who would of wasted your time anyway. You have room now for more guys who actually fancy you and not the ones who likes one night stands.
If your best friend knew abo... (read in full...)
It feels like shes using me. Is she?
Q. We're dating for a few months, I'm 31 she's 22 last night she asked me to pick her up at her house and I didn't want to because I just don't want to get out of my house and as she lives far away I'm not into it driving right now, just a lazy day, ...
A. 3 April 2018: Perhaps she is frustrated about the amount of effort you put into the relationship? Asking her for you to drive her somewhere is a way to spend some time together as well as seeing how invested you are into the relationship. You guys have only been ... (read in full...)
I missed an opportunity with him that I will never get again.
Q. About 2 months ago I felt an instant attraction towards someone at my local gym and I know he felt the same way because we were literally staring at each other longer than necessary. Anyway I screwed up because he said hi to me one time and I ...
A. 17 March 2018: Hi everyone and thanks everyone for your responses! :)
I had a good giggle because it really is a childish game between us! And it's really annoying! I'm 20 and his 22 years old. I know his is interested in me but his very intimidated by me now all ... (read in full...)
How do I fix a bad first impression and make him look at me again?
Q. Afew months ago there was a personal trainer who kept looking at me and watching me from afar; I'd look over to him and he never smiled nor turned away. It was quite intimidating so I looked away and didn't pay too much attention. His actually ...
A. 28 December 2017: I 100% agree with you; old fashion dating still works and was going to let him chase me. Yeah I was wondering whether he just wanted me for a client but he kept staring at me and most personal trainers dont do that. He seems friendly and talkactive ... (read in full...)
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