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.: Here's a tad bit about [me!] :.
xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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I am almost 9 months pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex...
Q. I am nearly nine months' pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex. We've been together eight years and married for nearly five. He's 10 years younger hadn't had any serious relationships before me and wants to live by himself but still ...
A. 7 March 2008: HEY!!
Look after yourself babe!! Make sure you are okay :)
Feel free to mail me about anything x x... (read in full...)
My girl is my world...but she wants a break...what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been having problems for about a month or longer. We have been fighting and carrying on but recently she told me she wanted a break. This absoloutely crushed me to pieces. The only way that I was able to cope with this ...
A. 7 March 2008: HEY!!
She has gone about this in the wrong way, but if she has actualy told you she has fallen out of love, you need to accept this babe! i know it will be realy realy hard for you but this sort of thing does often happen in a relationship.. You ... (read in full...)
He wants to bring another man into bed to please me (strictly for me), but I'm not so sure...
Q. My boyfriend thoroughly enjoys pleasing me beyond my wildest expectations and has a fantasy of bringing another man in to have sex with me while he is having sex with me. He says it is strictly for my pleasure and he gets off on that and simiulated ...
A. 7 March 2008: HEY!!
Hon its fully up to you, if you arent happy with the idea of a 3rd then dont!!
Dont hesitate to mail me about anything x x x... (read in full...)
I regret the abortions I've had, and I'm concerned I won't be able to conceive a sibling for my daughter and move on in life...
Q. Well here it goes...THIS IS A REAL PERSONAL MATTER. I PREFER NO JUDGEMENT. Just advice please. I am 24yrs old. I have had 4 pregnancies. 3 abortions and 1 live birth (a daugther). I was always the type that thought i would never do that. However, ...
A. 7 March 2008: HEY!!
Thats great :) i get a lot of bladder/kidney problems and that causes my abdomen pain :S i think that when you are definately ready to have another child, then just go to the GP and ask if there are any reasons why you may not be able to conc... (read in full...)
I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?
Q. I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Stop comparing yourself, and she shouldnt compare you either! i know a lad who wears girls underwear.. he says thay they are comfy..
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
Should I be at all worried that she may be pregnant? I know this sound stupid but I just don't want any kids with her....
Q. Two weeks ago a friend stayed at mine, we slept together, she is not on the pill so we used a condom, wanting to play it safely I didn't even cum inside the condom whilst I was in her, we had been messing around before and I had been fingering her ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You used a condom, you should be safe, and is there a particular reason you dont want to have kids with her? if you are feeling that certain then dont have sex with her.. tell her to take a test just to make sure..
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to ... (read in full...)
I've developed feelings for his friend and don't know what to do...
Q. I've been in a relationship for 4 years, we don't really get on like we used to and I'm not sure what to do anymore, I've developed feelings for his friend. Any advice would be great. ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
If you want to split up a friendship then okay, but hon i realy wouldnt advise it.. If you arent happy then you must think about ending the relationship, because it will only get harder!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
My letter to him was opened by the WIFE he "forgot" to mention!!!!!
Q. I'm in a pickle. I'm married, but have been texting and seeing this bloke for 20 months, the relationship was slowing down, so I sent him a letter, unfortunately it was opened by the wife he had "forgotten" to mention, and all hell broke loose! Wife ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You have got to admit that you did the rong by having this fling with another man, and he has only done to you what you have done to your husband etc. Forget about everyone else and focus on your marriage (if you want to like you said... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, Right, about a month ago during Sex with my Boyfriend the condom came off. I was quite worried that I might have got pregnant but two days later I started my period so I though everything was fine. Since that little scare we have been ver...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Yes its possible!! Just take a test and find out :) oorrr go to your GP :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
How can I make him see that we'd make a great couple?
Q. ive been seeing this boy for months now, and ive fallen in love with him, we see eachother basicaly everyday, and we're always on the fone and txting when we're apart. he sais he loves me and wants to be with me but he cant. he is 20 and im ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
i was 15 when i met my partner and he was 19 (a week before his 20th) and we have now been together for 2 years.. There is no reason you two shouldnt be a couple.. you are of age (UK LAWS) and you seem to be confident in each other :) What... (read in full...)
I bled after losing my virginity, is this normal?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm not very confident in writing this but really need advice. Anyway hear it goes, I lost my virginity last Friday to my b/f and hardly bled after more like a spot more then anything, then monday again hardly anything, but then ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Yea thats normal but if you have anymore problems, its best just to see your GP :)
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
If I have anal sex do I keep my virginity in tact?
Q. My man and I want to make love but I don't want to lose my virginity yet. He has convinced me that if we have anal sex then this will be possible. Is this true?...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Yes your hymen will be still intact as that will only be broken through vaginal sex. But in most minds, anal sex is still classified as sex..
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
I love the attention but it is coming from unwanted directions!
Q. I have been getting a lot of attention from the guys lately. i absolutely love the attention because i have never gotten much from the opposite sex before. but it seems that everyone that likes me, I don't like back. and everyone that I like, ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
About the guy that u like, but is asking another girl out, yea i would agree he just sees you as a friend.. wait a while and let the others down gently.. you will find the perfect match one day :) YOUR YOUNG!! :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my boyfriend did not like the oral, even though he said he did...
Q. Hi I gave my boyfriend a blow job for the first time yesterday,i've never done it before and now im worried that i wasn't any good at it as i did not go all the way down for the fact i was worried about gagging, my guy said he enjoyed and he sounded ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
I agree with the others!! Don't use your teeth and u will be fine! ask him what he likes and make sure he is happy with you doing it :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
I can't help but think all men are the same...
Q. My boyfriend received a text from a girl last night, she is his best friends girlfriend. He said she's neva txt him before and it was a harmless txt, which i did read. I was in a relationship for 5 years with a guy who i thought i'd be with forever, ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
All men aren't the same! :) what your partner has done is really bad and you need to decide wether or not to trust him anymore.. And try not to compare him to your ex.. Was the txt message really explicit?
Feel free to mail me at any time x x... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like I'm going to lose my girl?
Q. Tell me why I feel like cheating on my girl all the time and why do I feel like I'm gonna lose my girl to my mates or her exes and I keep pushing her away, I haven't cheated up to this date but I keep feeling like I should. Tell me why I keep ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You are insecure and thats why you think she is going to leave you and you are trying to push her to her ex, to hurt yourself and proove yourself right. This girl deserves you to be better, you need to calm down and trust her more..
GOOD ... (read in full...)
I feel it's me, my boyfriend... and his sister!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now, and he is really close with his sister she is older than him though, but like she comes into to his room when I'm there and talks to him and she uses his computer so we have no privacy together!! ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Thats a difficult situation because you need to think about how to approach it.. maybe say to his sister how come she wont let you try her clothes on but shes alrite to try yours on?.. tell your boyfriend you want some time alone with him.... (read in full...)
My friend has just told me he loves me and it's changed everything... Help!
Q. I have a big problem that I don't see a way out of. I have recently met this guy and we decided to give going out a try. However my friend (who is male) has just told me he loves me! We have been friends for ages and I have never given him any ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Well just tell him your feelings (your friend) and only you will be able to make the decision of who you spend your life with :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
He's told me not to worry but I worry that he's 10 years younger than me...
Q. I'm a seperated woman of 34, with 2 daughters 8 and 5. I met this lovely guy and am dating him now for only a matter of weeks, the thing is he is 10 years younger, neither of us are bothered about the age gap, he has not met my girls and won't till ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Well have faith in the relationship and see how it goes :) I know you will have problem with trusting people but yes try and relax :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
A guy marrying a lesbian?
Q. I have fallen in to a situation here i have too many conflicting issues to know what is right to do. I had met a girl some time ago and we became fast friends and became very, very close and shared a small intimate moment, however she, is gay. ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Well after reading your update, just see how it goes :)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
I am almost 9 months pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex...
Q. I am nearly nine months' pregnant and caught my husband cheating with text sex. We've been together eight years and married for nearly five. He's 10 years younger hadn't had any serious relationships before me and wants to live by himself but still ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You shouldn't have to deal with this, not only because you are pregnant but also because he is meant to be your loyal husband. Talk to him, tell him you know, and you want the truth.. He has risked a lot by doing this!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel fre... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself falling for my married colleague?
Q. I'm 20 years old and think I am in love with a woman who is 40 and married. I have worked with her for 3 years and we are very close. I think she is aware that I have feelings for her and find her attractive. On nights out she teases me by touching ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
She is married leave her alone, if she feels the same way about you she will divorce her husband.. Dont break their family up like that. You dont have to stop yourself from feeling like this, but if she flirts with you, tell her to stop, take... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to stay with him when he goes into the army...
Q. My boyfriend wants me 2 stay with him while he goes to the army but the thing is... I can wait and I really do love him, I will just miss him so much... He wants to be with me forever all my mates say they think he really does love me but I'm just ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Babe it is understandable that you would miss him, its a humans natural emotion!! As long as you let him know that your fears are him being hurt, and (as long as you think you can dedicate your whole future to him) let him know you will alwa... (read in full...)
A guy marrying a lesbian?
Q. I have fallen in to a situation here i have too many conflicting issues to know what is right to do. I had met a girl some time ago and we became fast friends and became very, very close and shared a small intimate moment, however she, is gay. ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You are young!!! Youve got your life ahead of you!!! Dont get married to someone who is openly a lesbien (not bi) unless there is real love for each of you, forever.. Being married is your love towards each other!
GOOD LUCK! Feel free to ... (read in full...)
I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2-3 boyfriends and a fiance!!!
Q. please help, I got myself in a bit of a tangle. I have got 2/3 boyfriends and a fiance, my fiance lives abroad, my first boyfriend I have been with him for 4 years but it has been a rocky relationship on and off and my fiance I don't even know him ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You confused me! :) You need to end it with two and only have one partner.. It will end in tears, and you are still cheating even if you havent had sex with the others!!
Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
Why won't my girlfriend satisfy me anymore? Please help!
Q. My gf and I have been together for almost a year now. When we first met we didn't leave the bed for 6 weeks unless it was to eat or go to work. She very sexually open. We would try different positions, give each other oral, 69, etc. She once ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
That is exactly like what me and my partner of two years were like.. We did everything toooooo fast!! Everything you can imagin we did it.. You need to get her into the mood, and when she is, then let her know you are happy to stop when... (read in full...)
Lonely Cryer...
Q. I'm 19 years old, and I need help. My boyfriend doesn't care about me anymore. I am pregnant with his child right now. All he does when he comes home from work is sit on the computer. Then it's bed time. That's it! And when we argue, he knows I go ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
A lot of men out there (not all DONT GET ME WRONG) but some, do have problems in saying they are sorry or showing emotion.. So that could be one of the reasons.. he probley feels realy bad for upsetting you and if he sees you then this may ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I'm afraid telling him might ruin our friendship!
Q. ive fallen in love with a guy who is my best mate,he is also in a relationship,has been for 3 weeks now. he doest know how i feel about him,i want to tell him but im too scared to tell him how i feel incase i loose him and it it ruins our ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
He is in a relationship, so dont tell him.. You dont want to be the blame for his breakup.. Hon thats the best thing to do, until he is single.. and about your friendship, if you think he would rather be friends then dont tell him, and if you ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned for my friend who is in love with an older man...how do I tell her?
Q. My best friend is the same age as me.(We'll call her Clara) Anyway she loves this guy who is 26! 12 years older than her. What should I do? Should I tell Clara she needs to forget about him and move on. Cause there is this other guy 15 (lets cal...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Just to let you know, your account says you are 22-25. If this 14 year old is in love with a 26 year old man, then nothing can happen. It is illegal. Does this man like her? You need to make sure your friend knows nothing can legaly happ... (read in full...)
She doesn't turn me on as much as she used to...is there something wrong with me?
Q. hi ive been having a problem lately... im not turned on as much by my gf. we used to have like sex 7-8 times a week but now its like 1 lol. it goes up but like doesnt stay up and after a while goes down. like when i used to see her breasts id be ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
How long have you noticed yourself being like this, it could be that you are stressed, or you have other things on your mind? Does she give you fore-play or oral.. and if she does, does it do anything for you? Me and my partner used to have... (read in full...)
How can I last longer during sex? And should I give her oral to make up for ejaculating so early?
Q. Recently I've been seeing this girl I'm close friends with. We are both seventeen. I am not very sexually experienced, however, she is (she's clean, don't worry). This is a pretty wierd question to ask on this site, i guess, but, the past few times ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
You have the sammmmmme thing as me boyfriend! he suffers from the same problem.. What we do, is now i have been buying the performa condoms (DUREX) and they have been working realy well, they make him last at least 5 mins! It has a anae... (read in full...)
I know he loves me, but he's not into anything intimate yet...am I doing something wrong?
Q. my boyfriend loves me this i know. but when i try anything intimate with him, he doesnt respond like most guys. i feel like i am doing all the work. am i doing something wrong? ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Maybe he isnt ready for things like that.. Im not realy sure what you mean..
GOOD LUCK! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
He calls me names, gets really jealous, and slapped my leg really hard...is this an abusive relationship?
Q. Me and my bf of 2 years were broken up for around 9 months. He broke up with me. DUring that time, things were very dramatic between us. He would get very jealous at any new guy I meet. A couple times we got into heated arguments and he would te...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
He is being verbally and physically abusive towards you. Get out of the relationship, if you can.
HOPE YOU ARE OKAY! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
He lied to be about matsturbation to porn and visiting strip clubs...now I can't get close to him!
Q. I have been seein my boyfriend for 6 months and have had a very healthy sex life until recently when i found out he was lying about going to strip clubs and masturbating to porn regularly. Now i feel disgusted and sick to my stomach when he tries to ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Well hon, i honestly think your boyfriend needs to start telling you the truth, instead of you finding out him lying. You need to think about your future, if you tell him to stop going to the clubs and he says he will but doesnt, then is the ... (read in full...)
I am easily aroused by caresses to my back. He does this in public! What should I do?!
Q. i am easily aroused to gentle touches on my back which, my boyfriend finds easily. i always tell him to stop. its really hard when he constantly does it and we are in a public place like school. what should i do?...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
If you dont like it then tell him to stop.. i know you like it because he arouses you, but if you dont like it, because it is in public, then tell him to stop!!
GOOD LUCK! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a virgin to think about sex constantly and be easily aroused?
Q. sex is all i think about and i am still a virgin. and i am easily excited sexually. is that normal?...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Yea that's completely normal, it is your sex drive :)
HAVE FUN! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x ... (read in full...)
I regret the abortions I've had, and I'm concerned I won't be able to conceive a sibling for my daughter and move on in life...
Q. Well here it goes...THIS IS A REAL PERSONAL MATTER. I PREFER NO JUDGEMENT. Just advice please. I am 24yrs old. I have had 4 pregnancies. 3 abortions and 1 live birth (a daugther). I was always the type that thought i would never do that. However, ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
The past is the past and you have done it so stop feeling angry about it.. like you said, under the circumstances the outcome was needed.. There is a high chance you will be fine to have another child and when you feel ready, have one :)
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How do I bring up sex to my son, and what will I say?
Q. How and what should I say to my 14 year son about sex? ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Approach the subject gently because he will probly be embarrased about talking about it. He probly will know most things but ask him if he would like to know anything else and let him know that he can ask you anything whenever he want... (read in full...)
He smokes pot when he's with his friends, and I hate it!
Q. I hate the fact that I want advice on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Unfortunately, we only get to see each other on the weekends because we are both in college and live about an hour away from each other. But we talk for ...
A. 6 March 2008: HEY!!
Well hon i know exactly how you feel, that used to be how my boyfriend of 2 years was, he used to smoke it regularly but i got him to altogether stop it. You need to set the boundaries with him, tell him you aren't happy with him smoking it, ... (read in full...)
What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend?
Q. What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend? Will I continue this commitment? please help me......
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
I think this relationship will be very hard to continue, whilst he is still in love with his ex. You should talk to him and see what he feels about you, then this will determine your future..I hope i helped you, Feel free to mail me at any ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???
Q. What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ...
A. 29 February 2008: HEY!!
From what i have read, it is where there aret two men and one woman.. and whilst engaging in sexual activity, they do this in different ways, one person will do one thing while the other man will do something else.. search it in this webs... (read in full...)
I had brief intercourse with a stripper during a lap dance... should I tell my wife?
Q. I’m felling real guilty about what happened to me at a strip bar. I’m a happily married man, ten years married with two kids. I go to strip bars, my wife lets me and its never been an issue. She goes out with her friends too, and admittedly been ...
A. 29 February 2008: I CANT UNDERSTAND WHY YOU WOULD EVEN BE COMPARED TO BEING RAPED.. I WAS RAPED WHEN I WAS 12.. RAPE IS WHERE YOU SAY NO! YOU SAY NO TO THEM DOING IT AND YOU DO PROTEST TO IT! WHERE YOU SAID ''What was I to do? Throw her off me and protest? '' YES YOU ... (read in full...)
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