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Well, I am a girl, just a random one! I found this site just a few days ago & then remembered I was actually on this years ago! Looking at my answers & questions makes me realize how much wiser & different I am now! I really have a thing about giving my opinion & giving advice on things. I am very honest & enjoy to give my personal answer to people. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a very long time & I love him to pieces, I join up to lots of agony aunt sites & I also love asking questions :] I'm not on here to make friends or anything like that, Just to answer & ask questions :)

I cried deleting my ex-girlfriend pictures

Q.   My girlfriend left me 8 months ago.Today, I deleted her all pictures from my computer. But while I pressing deleting button, I was feeling like killing her forever. Afterwards and even now I can't help crying. Anyone here has experienced the same ...

A.   31 July 2011: i think from what your saying, your still not fully over her and this is why it hurt so much to get rid of the pictures. you did a good thing though by getting rid of them, with you no longer looking at them it wont bring up as many memories or... (read in full...)

Should I stop watching porn?

Q.   Can anyone tell me of any reasons that they can think of as to why I shouldn't watch porn? I watch it every couple of weeks, or so - just when I'm in the mood to. But then I feel sort of guilty, like I shouldn't be watching it. Do you think I should ...

A.   30 July 2011: you watch it every few weeks? theres nothing wrong with that, enjoy it, you have nothing to feel guilty about! there is no reason why you should stop! if it gets to the point where your watching it 100 times a day, or it takes over your sex life... (read in full...)

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

Q.   OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

A.   30 July 2011: at your age you should have known better! 50 years old, falling in love with a 20 year old guy? i can't believe you could be so naive. you need to get over this, he used you for gifts and money as you stated yourself, he used you because you woul... (read in full...)

I have no bf and I don't want to masturbate...but I want sex so badly! What should I do??

Q.   Dear Cupid, I want to have sex, I want it really bad! But I have no BF, I don't want to masturbate and I don't want to watch porn. I mean, I want to make love with someone but I have failed to get a BF. Hey, I am female 30 yrs, professional and ...

A.   30 July 2011: if you want sex soon, i would say look around on some internet sites for no strings attached sex ( i know that sound so sleazy, but if thats what you want. ) or maybe go to a club/bar? lots of men go to them just to pick up women! if your... (read in full...)

Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?

Q.   So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret ...

A.   30 July 2011: the girls who make fun of you are just jealous, i mean your body sounds perfect! just over 9 stone and a cup D, i would love that! there is nothing wrong with that at all, i think it would look perfectly in proportion. i think if people are alwa... (read in full...)

I feel that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work...What do I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I can't get over the feeling that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work. They have been friends now for a couple of years but she recently got married and is already having marriage problems. My hus...

A.   30 July 2011: from what you have said, i would probably be suspicious too, the fact that he denied getting in contact with her and then the fact that you found out he keeps deleting each text they send to each other. i would talk to him about it, if he wont giv... (read in full...)

How do I stop my new boyfriend losing interest?

Q.   My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise....

A.   30 July 2011: what kind of relationship is this? your coming to strangers for advice, saying the only way you think this relationship will get more interesting is if you give him a blowjob. i think this relationship is a waste of both of your times, when you... (read in full...)

My husband has admitted that he has and is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend

Q.   My husband has admitted that he has or is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend. When I asked him to end the friendship he says I am being unfair and that I don't understand how hard it is for him to make friends (we live in a small town ...

A.   30 July 2011: then he needs to choose you over her and cut of all contact with her as soon as possible, if he loves you he will do this and wont even question it. the fact that he is hiding emails and text which they are sending between them both shows what a s... (read in full...)

Do women look too ?

Q.   A question that will ignite a debate, we men although may have the most beautiful wife/girlfriend but we keep on looking at other women, we don't get enough! although we may be having the best woman...Are women like us in nature, do they look at men ...

A.   25 July 2011: i used to take huge offence if my OH looked at another girl, would really upset me! but then one day i just realized its natural, and its fine for him to have a little glance, its when he stares it pisses me off and upsets me! in my own experien... (read in full...)

All over me one minute, distant the next

Q.   About a month ago, I met a friend of my friend's while we were all on a night out (Let's call him Dave). According to my friend's boyfriend (Mark), when we (me, my friend and Mark) walked into the bar and joined their group, Dave pulled Mark aside ...

A.   24 December 2010: he just wanted sex, thats all. he used you, just like lots of people use people on a night out! if he wanted something more serious he would be in touch.... (read in full...)

Is anal Masturbation a sin?

Q.   Is anal masturbation a sin? I recently found out how awesome it is, but I really want to know if it is a sin or not...help please?...

A.   24 December 2010: simple answer NO :D you can do what you like with yourself, as long as you dont go sticking your finger up somebody else arse without permission you should be grand.... (read in full...)

I am sleeping with my husband's best friend

Q.   I am sleeping with my husband's best friend. It started a year and a half ago. Every time we spend together is just amazing. He says all the right things and makes love to me in ways I cannot describe. Trouble is, I love my husband very muc...

A.   24 December 2010: "I love my husband very much and I have no intention of leaving him." are you being serious? you love your husband but you have a quickie everytime you and his best friend get a chance alone! also you have no intention of leaving him? that is ... (read in full...)

I kissed my boss! Should I tell my fiance?

Q.   I'm in love with my boss im engagde but me and my boss spents more time together then me and my bf i really dnt know what i must do we kiss this morning for the first time do i tell my fiance or do i just make if it never happend i realy do love him ...

A.   24 December 2010: you sound like a teenager with a crush on her teacher, this probably means absolutely nothing, if you really liked him and he really liked you, you would be together and you wouldnt be betraying your boyfriend. why stay with somebody you dont lov... (read in full...)

Can I do anything to get bigger boobs?

Q.   hello everyone, im 15 and im a 32 a and im size 6 or sometimes 8. im always being bullied about my boobs and i was just wondering if i can do anything to get bigger boobs? I've heard if i put weight on they will grow but im just confused and des...

A.   18 November 2010: If you put on weight, your boobs wont grow, they will just get fat & soon as you have put on weight you will think your fat more than likely and want to loose all that weight & then say byebye to your boobies because all they were was fat. You s... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?

Q.   I'm 16..And I have a boyfriend..But we've never met in person before..only on webcam and phone..And he's halway around the world..Well I guess the question is..Is it weird?Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?...

A.   17 November 2010: You need to know he's real, I know talking to him on the phone and stuff might make you think hes real but he might not be, you need to see him on cam, check his profile for friends he hangs around with, and when you meet him do not do it on your ... (read in full...)

Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?

Q.   I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...

A.   17 November 2010: He is the child's father! At least have the dignity to ask him if he wants to be in her life, at least then you will know the answer, if he says no then he says no, that's horrible but some people are just cold like that. Once your girls older she ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?

Q.   I'm 16..And I have a boyfriend..But we've never met in person before..only on webcam and phone..And he's halway around the world..Well I guess the question is..Is it weird?Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?...

A.   17 November 2010: It depends how long you have known him. I met my current partner that I am with now through the internet, we spoke for a year and a half and realized how in love we were, I was only 15 he was 19. We thought it wouldn't work, I thought it would never ... (read in full...)

Is it a turn off to see the guy you fancy chewing tobacco?

Q.   Just some quick question for the girls. If you saw a guy that you found attractive would it turn you off if you saw him chewing tobacco? If he asked you out would you say no or see him differently because of this? And yes i am fully aware of the ...

A.   17 November 2010: My boyfriend stopped smoking for me, it was really hard for him to do but he did it and I was so proud, when we were first together he never smoked around me. Whenever we met up I could just smell the smell & it knocked me sick! Now, 2 years on the ... (read in full...)

I accidentally had sex with a 14 year old girl

Q.   ok I have a (hypothetical) question. I am a male in my mid 30's. My wife my 2 daughters (3 and 7) and my niece (15) and her friend (14) went on a road trip to Florida. We stopped halfway there and got a hotel room, my wife and I in one room the...

A.   24 August 2007: How could you not know the difference between your wife and some 14 year old girl :| Sorry you MUST have known.. Did you have your eyes shut while having sex...? :| ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher! Help!

Q.   i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...

A.   14 July 2007: I'm in the same situation.. and hurting yourself is daft!!! I have done that in the past and I so regret it.. I never have hurt myself over a teacher tho.. theres plenty more lads.. I'm in love with a teacher at my school but yeah I go out with ... (read in full...)

I'll prob never see him again!

Q.   I love this guy....and have for a LONG time. we go to a club together and next tuesday, is his last day and i'll prob never see him again!!! I am almost possitive that he loves me back....should i kiss him on the last day? Or should i right h...

A.   14 July 2007: heyy hunni x well if its the last time your gonna see him and you love him and your sure he loves you 3 then give him something to remember .. find somewhere on your own and tell him your gonna miss him and give him a kiss :) xxxx... (read in full...)

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