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xox Age : 17 (nearly 18) in feb
xox [Loves] : [Partner (gawjus boyfwend)], chocolate && Pepsi max
xox Smoke : no
xox Drink : sumtimes ;)
xox Drugs : Never have and [never] will
xox Lives with : Mum, mum bf and brother.
xox [Fave] type of music : all sorts =]
xox I'm in a [Long-Term] relationship with my [partner]. We have currently been together 2 years and 10 months (this sunday). I [love] him to peices! We love each other so much and every moment we spend with each other is the best moments of my life. We have decided to move on in life together which some will have noticed, i know i am young, and my partner is 22 now :), however we are ready and will be able to support a child with care and give a child love, and a house xox
xox I am [glad] to help anyone =] i think it is [important] to get help, especially from people you [dont] know (it's easier to 'open up' to them). I would like to add, if you have a problem with me, please do not mail me calling me names as i dont think it is mature. I will report you! xox
xox Ive had my fair share of problems in my [life].. I have many things that still [hurt] me now. I was raped at the age of 12.. which is another reason to why i want to help people xox
xox If you ever need someone to talk to or maybe just even a friend you can mail me on this site.. =] xox
xox I hope i can help you =] xox
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How should I ask her out?
Q. i really like my friend. We're both 17. I've liked her for a year. Any advice on how i could ask her out? How could i confess to her my feelings?...
A. 26 November 2007: you could get her a side for a min and pour your heart out to her :) that usually does the trick :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Any advice on fingering?
Q. I'm looking for advice on fingering girls. I've done it a few times now, but I still have a hard time finding the clit. I was with a girl on the weekend and she asked me to rub her clit while I was fingering her, and I felt like I was takin...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon, the clit is the triangl peice of skin at the top of the vagina (on the skin) and the g spot is inside about 3-4 inchs upwards on the vagina wall towards her front. let the girl tell you how she would like it, and let her show you if need be ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm pregnant?
Q. i have had headaches, slight cramps, dizziness, itchy nipples, nausea, and sore nipples...my periods not due until the first. i had sex 2 days before and the day after my most fertile day. but now almost 2 weeks later all my symptoms are gone. Do ...
A. 26 November 2007: hey hon, did you not use contraception? if not then there is a chance, however, these symptoms come at any time and can affect a women not just when she is pregnant. Take a test and if need be, go to see your local GP. I hope you are ok and i wish ... (read in full...)
How can a woman love, yet cheat time after time?
Q. I am wondering if someone could enlighten me? Would be nice to get female answers. Why would a woman cheat time after time,go through the same denials and say the same things,yet swear her love,accuse her boyfriend of cheating,show violent ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon, basically she is reaching out to other people and sees sex as something positive and likes the differences. I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
I like parties, and love guys! But my mom is worried about me. What can I do to comfort her?
Q. i am a wild teenager. i like to party and i love guys. my mom is scared im gonna turn out like her and shes a 32 year old lady on parol who just got out of prison. but i have tried every drug in the book and i dont like either of them,so you ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey sugar the fact that youve tried them has probs scared her more though =/ You need her to be able to trust you, cut out the drugs and let her know your having safe sex :) I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about ... (read in full...)
Does my size say I'm ready?
Q. well i am 16 years old turning 17 in 2 months, and i was a late bloomer in puberty, and i had to take testosteron shots to actually get moveing in puberty, its been almost year since the shots started, and i feel im ready of sex with my girlfriend, ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon it isnt the size that counts it is what you do with it :) all you have to do is believe in yourself and she will love it :) I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
She's giving me mixed signals. What should I do?
Q. dear all. thank you for helping me out in the past. but this one i can't get my head around. theres a lady that i like. we met. physical attraction was ok, but everything else was spot on. i have never laughed so much in my life, felt so at ease. it...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey sugar, this woman needs to leave you alone now, as she has acting so strangely. You need to let her know how you feel :) I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying with him even though he doesn't return my calls?
Q. please help.i meet this guy coming up to 2 weeks so far its been good,ive been round his house 3 times and stayed over night the thing is he wants sex and deep down i want it two but not just yet, anyway this weekend i went away on a day trip and he ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey honey, you sound like you have done everthing in your power to get him to talk to you, now its his turn. You need to wait for him to get in touch with you, if stil nothing tomorrow then it may be ideal for you to text him saying something like ... (read in full...)
His dads told him to not date anyone. But I really like him. Help!!!
Q. there's this guy whom i really love ,n i thought that even he loved me, we even kissed but he dint propose me neither did I..but now since many days we haven't spoken he's trying to ignore me when i asked the reason , he said that his dad had read ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon, you need to talk to him to find out if this is the only reason and if it is, you need to respect his decision on wether he still wants to date you. I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Should I cut my losses with a guy that doesn't want to commit?
Q. Should I cut my losses? S and I have been dating for several months now. I'm 26, he's 31. We have fun together, we spend a lot of time together and I love him. We do have little quarrels but as a whole it is a great relationship. The only problem ...
A. 26 November 2007: Hey hon, if you believe you may want to get married in the future and he doesnt then, you may be in for dissapointment if you stay with him and in the future he does not want to marry..You both need to sit down and talk about it :) I hope you are ok ... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 26 November 2007: What you have read isn't true and this is from someone who knows someone who did it for a long time.. I hope i could help, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 26 November 2007: What you have read isn't true and this is from someone who knows someone who did it for a long time.. I hope i could help, feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Pills management. I am not sure what I have done.
Q. Hey, i am currently taking the pill, but some how i've messed it up. I normally start a new pack on a Tuesday (today's Sunday) but somehow i have no pill in this pack for tomorrow... On tuesday i am supposed to leave them for a week to have my ...
A. 25 November 2007: use your pills up, and dont go by the date if you have messed it up. Dont waste the pills by throwing them away. Start from the day you have a pill in and go from there :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Does he really want her back?
Q. After a great night of passionate sex with my boyfriend, he starts dreaming of his ex-wife. I know this because he started talking about how lucky they were to have their daughter, and then he starts pushing his body up against mine, and says wow ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, has he said this to your face, or has he said this in his sleep? if it was too your face then this could mean he is trying to rub it in with you and making you feel low, and if it is in his dreams, this is telling you something =/ I hope i ... (read in full...)
Is it incest if you were related through great grandparents?
Q. After being in a relationship for about 2 and a half years, it fizzled out, but that wasn't to mean that the break-up wasn't messy, and a lot of heartache caused. That was 4 months ago, and i haven't even been interested in getting involved with ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, no its not incest at all :) have fun :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Sometimes I break down and cry all of a sudden at the thought of not having her around. How do you move on when the feelings are so strong?
Q. I think of her as the best person in the world the ideal partner, she's the first thing on my mind in the morning and last thing at night , some times i will just break down all of a sudden and just cry and cry at the thought of not having her ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey sugar.. yea that song is great :) the westlife one is good too :) you really need to divert your thoughts too someone or something else, think about other things :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me about anything x... (read in full...)
Am I overweight? If so how can I get slimmer?
Q. I am a 15 year old girl, 5ft 10, and weigh 150 pounds. My parents say I'm overweight and that I should exercise more although I lead a healthy lifestyle, I exercise daily, I eat healthy. If there is any advice, how could I decrease my measurements ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, check this website out, which will tell you wether or not you are overweight, Swimming and jogging are the best way to lose weight. I am now obese.. and it is so hard to lose weight :( check this website out ... (read in full...)
I want her sex now!!
Q. I have this woman who's been a long time friend, although we have not been very close. I became sexually attracted to her since the day she tried to have sex with me. At that time I was young and dumb and didn't realize what was on her mind. For 1 ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey, take her out for a meal and see where that leaves you. Make sure she wants it too. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
When I have sex with a man will I not enjoy it?
Q. Loads of my mates talk about masturbation and I tried it but it is really painful and uncomfortable when I fingered myself, is this odd and does this mean that when I have sex (with a man!) will I not enjoy it?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, the reason it was uncomfortable, means you were probably not lubricated enough, which happens when you are 'turned on' when the time comes for you to have sex, you will need to be fully relaxed and lubricated. I hope i helped, Feel free to ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a boy fancies you or is just being a flirt?
Q. What are the normal signs that a boy fancies a girl? I am trying to figure out if this boy just wants to be friends, is a regular flirt, or really fancies me. Help, please!...
A. 25 November 2007: hii, umm well sometimes they play fight, which is another way to get close to you.. he may ask you if you have your eye on anyone.. things like that? is that ok? mail me if you want to :) x... (read in full...)
He gets me in trouble but I love him so much...
Q. Hi my name is charley and im 14 years old. I have a bf named andrew and hes 13. People at school call me a pedo and other stuff and its been going on since ive been going out with him. People say stuff to him too and i feel like im geting him into ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, i was 15 when i met my boyfriend 17months ago who is now 21. I believe we will be together forever :) ignore the childish people calling you a poedo. You clearly aren't a poedo at all. If you really like this lad then dont let silly things ... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Aww that's great, i wish you luck :) x x x mail me about anyhting :)... (read in full...)
I know it's silly but I have a crush on my teacher and it's affecting my grades, how can I get over this?
Q. I'm Sooooo stressed, and it's down to just ONE person! A Teacher... I've had an obsessive crush on him for nearly a year, and it's actually affecting my school work - I'm not a nerd or anything, but if i wanna get my dream job i'm gonna have to ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, your no way a nerd! your councellor will help you to get over him, this will pass, but you need to think of things to get your mind off him :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
How does an age gap affect a relationship??
Q. How does an age gap affect a relationship? Explain whats good and bad when you have a 20years gap boyfriend?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey sugar, there are allsorts of advantages and disadvantages, but the most important thing it the amount you love and trust each other :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a crush at my age?
Q. I can't get this guy out of my mind.... is it normal to have a crush at my age? We are both getting divorced, his is almost finalised, mine is just beginning. Am I just focusing on him, to take my mind off the real everyday nitty-gritty matte...
A. 25 November 2007: I think you are hon, it will take time :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
Office affair!
Q. Hi - I am married but getting very close to a colleague at work. We are very flirty and becoming quite tactile. I want to take things further (she is married too). I feel we will become 'fuck buddies' soon. We get on fantastically we...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, the fact that you are both married, i dont think you should do it, but i also dont think you're going to lsiten to that.. stay safe.. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
How do you make out with a boy?
Q. help me!! i need 2 no how 2 make out with a guy!! plz help me!! ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, making out, is basically kissing, with opening your mouth and maybe using tongue, touching each others tongues.. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
Which aspects of sex do women enjoy most?
Q. What aspects of sex do women enjoy the most? Kissing? The closeness to their partner? ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, i love the closeness of my boyfriend, but i also like the kissing so both :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a boy fancies you or is just being a flirt?
Q. What are the normal signs that a boy fancies a girl? I am trying to figure out if this boy just wants to be friends, is a regular flirt, or really fancies me. Help, please!...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, if he is constantly trying to be around you then this is a vital sign, but there are so many signs :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
Advice on kissing during sex?
Q. What types of kissing do women enjoy the most during sex? Where on their bodies do they liked to be kissed? In general how much kissing is expected before having intercourse?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey sugar, i like kisses to the neck, and breasts, basically everywhere. For kissing i prefere to have the full on tongue as that turns me on also.. but every woman is different so you need to know what they prefere first :) I hope i helped, Feel ... (read in full...)
Any advice on dirty talking in bed?
Q. What advice about talking dirty during sex do you have? ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey sugar, make sure both of you are happy with it first, ask if they like what you are doing, and make sure you are showing how much fun you are having.. Make sure you are happy to do this, have fun :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout ... (read in full...)
Can you feel your hymen with a finger and whether it is intact or not?
Q. Hey, I'm wondering if you can feel your hymen while fingering yourself? I'm a virgin, but I want to know if my hymen is still intact. Also, how likely is it that I will bleed when I first have sex? x...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, some people can, and some can't, if you can see a peace of skin at the opening then it is still there :) Some people bleed and some people dont.. it all depends on different women :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my girlfriend as I'm not happy with her but I don't want to break her heart
Q. Hi. I am currently in an unhappy 2 and a half year relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and i am so terrified at breaking her heart. I know what to do but i just need some support and advice on ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey sugar, if you aren't happy in the relationship, then you know you have to end it. Do it in the most nicest way possible. Tell her the truth of why you are doing it, and let her know you still want to be friends. I hope i helped, Feel free to ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 she's 19 I love her and need help.
Q. hi im 15 and i have a really nice friend in a 19 year old girl who lives about 3-4 hours away. we met on the internet on xbox live. we met about 1-2 months ago and we are really good friends but i like her more than a friend and we both talk to each ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, i was 15 when i met my boyfriend who was 20 who is now 21. We have been together for 17 months, and i am nearly 17 now, that makes us a 4-5 year age gap. Depending on how much you feel for each other, then the age gap wont matter.. Dont ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was unfaithful, what should I do?
Q. Hi I'm 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We took a gap year round the world together for 5 months having the best moments of our life. We hardly fight, and we have loved each other so much in the last 2 years, and I never would have...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, this must be sorry horrible. The trust you had has gone and you need to know if you can re build it again. You need to have some time to think, if she has done it before, what will be different for her not to do it again. The fact she told ... (read in full...)
I want to be able to trust her more...
Q. My girlfriend and I are still in high school but we both come from completely different groups. She is a bit older than me and so are her friends. I don't know all these older guys that she is friends with and I know that I can't trust them. But I ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, this is all to do with trust. Trust is the vital part of a relationship, and it takes a long time to build it up. She hasn't hurt you up until now, so keep in good contact when she goes out, and let her know how much you like her :) I hope ... (read in full...)
I want to make her first time incredible.
Q. Me and this girl are going to have sex tomorrow night, we're kind of in an open relationship (that's all you can get in college these days). It's her first time, and she is a virgin, so I was wondering if anyone knows of away I can rock her world ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon, there isnt a very high chance on the first time she will orgasm, due to the pain she may have from it being her first time. Make sure she is relaxed, maybe have some candles around, make her very lubricated before hand, and if you love her, ... (read in full...)
Yeast infection
Q. Help me please!!! This is a little embarrassing, but I know I have a yeast infection, and I don't want to go to the doctor! Are there any home remedies to cure yeast infections? If there are any that you know of please tell me what they are, and ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hey hon, there are so many yeast infections, and you can by creams and tablets over the counter, at a pharmacy or supermarket. Ask someone who works there for help, they are usually very good at places like boots and pharmacies. I hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
Should I screw him or not? Please help!!!
Q. I'm only 13 and a certain guy wants to screw me. I said okay but he'd have to wait. I said okay because I liked him and I just tried to impress him and it worked too much. I really wanted to screw him but he's changed. He is so fake around his ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon. Don't try to impress this guy. He has changed and you have had second thaughts. You shouldn't have sex because you think he wont like you, that's not how it works. Hon i think you should stay safe and watch out for nasty people like this. Im ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if he cums inside my anus?
Q. um.. okay I'm just gonna come right out and ask it... if my boyfriend comes inside me while giving me anal can I get pregnant????????...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi hon, the passage of your anus does not run near your reproductive organs, however, if like siobhankay said, it could run down. There isnt a very high posiblity however, there is still a chance. Use a condom to be on the safe side, I hope i ... (read in full...)
If I were to have sex with my boyfriend just before my period and not use a condom would I still get pregnant?
Q. Okay I have a somewhat weird question that many of you might think stupid. I can feel that my period's going to start in the next few days. If I were to have sex with my boyfriend just before my period and not use a condom would I still get ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi sugar, you can get pregnant at any time of your menstrual cycle.. use a condom and stay safe :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x... (read in full...)
My friend jokingly told me he was going to crush and snort pep pills but I'm not sure if he really was kidding
Q. My friend is saying he is going to crush and snort 'pro plus' which is caffine tablets to help you stay awake.. he says they have the same effect as cocain. But then he said he was joking im worried help?...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi, that wont work at all.. i know a person who went to my high school and snorted everything, even paracetamol. The only thing it did was give him nose bleeds! He is joking and if he does it then tell him he is really stupid to do it.. stay safe ... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel ... (read in full...)
Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.
Q. Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two ...
A. 25 November 2007: Hi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel ... (read in full...)
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