Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?
Q. I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he ...
A. 26 November 2009: Yes, it is a little bit wierd coming so out of the blue. But I think it is just that he has fond memories of you and still cares. Not cares as in wants you back, but cares as in you were an important person in his life and you did not break up ... (read in full...)
Which pen to get my girlfriend for Christmas?
Q. For christmas I am going to get my girlfriend of a month an engraved pen as she loves stationary - would it be meaningful enough just to put her name on it or should i add a message too and if so what should that message be considering we've only ...
A. 18 December 2008: So? Which one did you get? What did you engrave? What was the end result? Oh, and afterwards, let us know how she liked it!... (read in full...)
After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantl...
A. 18 December 2008: Yes, you do deserve to be shown love and affection. It is not something you should just KNOW as you have said, it is something you should be shown on a consistent basis. Quite often it is the little things that show this ~ folding your laundry for ... (read in full...)
Which pen to get my girlfriend for Christmas?
Q. For christmas I am going to get my girlfriend of a month an engraved pen as she loves stationary - would it be meaningful enough just to put her name on it or should i add a message too and if so what should that message be considering we've only ...
A. 16 December 2008: I personally like the first pen you presented. It is beautiful and even the case is pretty! It also seems an appropriate amount of money to spend. You have only been dating a month, so the swarovski one at 60 pounds seems to me a bit extravagent. ... (read in full...)
I don't have the slightest idea how to snog
Q. Hi guys my girlfriend wants to snog and i said yes. we have been going out for 1 month and we both reallly reallly like each other. the problem is that i dont have the slightist idea how to snog. i really need help quickly please....
A. 16 December 2008: It really should flow pretty naturally. You will want to touch her. Put your arms around her or put your hands gently on her face. Approach her slowly and let your lips touch gently. As you begin kissing you will start to open you lips a little bit ... (read in full...)
Is jewelry a good idea for Christmas when we have been dating a short time?
Q. Is jewelry a good idea for a girl you've known for 5 months and dated for 1. If so what type and how much should i spend? ...
A. 16 December 2008: Jewelry is fine as long as it is not something too expensive or extravagent. As the other posters said, something in the $50 or under catagory. Something in sterling silverlike a charm bracelet, or a beaded necklace would be fine. ... (read in full...)
After everything she has done to me is it worth trying to be with her or am I flogging a dead horse?
Q. Hi everyone, this is my first question on here. And I'm using this service because I am in complete bits over recent events with my ex-girlfriend. I am 30 years old, am in a top job at a top bank in Canary Wharf, London. Career is going brilliantl...
A. 16 December 2008: The only positive things you had to say about this young woman are that she is beautiful ~ physically. Other than her physical beauty you mentioned not one redeeming quality. She is lazy, insecure, demanding, cold, delusional, irrational, self ... (read in full...)
Wierd smell
Q. This isn't really a sex question but I've recently noticed that my urine smells a bit strange, I can't describe it. Can anyone help me? :)...
A. 16 December 2008: Have you eaten any asperagus lately? Every time I do I am startled by the wierd smell when I pee! If it is temporary it is probably something you ate. If it persists, then you need to go to the doctor.... (read in full...)
I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?
Q. I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...
A. 12 December 2008: Huh? The answer by 'plexi' has me dumbfounded. She cant possbibly be so stupid as to believe that someone can actually cause someone elses nipples to fall off, can she? She has to be making a lame attempt at a joke, right? And no one goes to JAIL ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend brought me a vibrator, I'm a virgin, how should I use it?
Q. Hey This probably sounds really stupid but I don't know what it is, when you're meant to find out etc. My boyfriend recently bought me a vibrator and he keeps asking if I've used it yet. He's being sweet and not forceful and I want to try it out, h...
A. 12 December 2008: No matter what you will be a virgin. You lose your virginity when you have intercourse with a man, a penis must enter you, not a toy. You will, however, break your hymen and that can be quite painful. I, personally, do not think your first ... (read in full...)
Could someone explain/ go into depth about ther experiences with morning sickness?
Q. Hello all! I was just wondering if anyone could explain a bit more about morning sickness. I know it differs between each individual, so I'm just curious to hear about personal expiriences. I suspect I could be pregnant but probably am not, there ...
A. 12 December 2008: Personally I never really had morning sickness at all! There only time I would get sick was when I took my prenatal vitamins without eating. So that was because of the vitamins, not because of the pregnancy. I could eat anyhting I wanted. No ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my wife's best friend and even my wife thinks we'd be great together!!
Q. I've been married for about 3 years now and the wife and I had female friend and our relationship with her went a little farther than friendship. For my birthday the two of them had a little surprise for me in the pool. It never went as far as ...
A. 12 December 2008: If you are talking about leaving your wife for the friend I would have to say that I am against that idea. It wasnt really clear from your post if that is what you meant. However, it seems that your wife and the friend are both very open about the ... (read in full...)
She is dating someone else now, can I still get her back?
Q. how to get back with my ex-girl friend she is dating someone else we work togeter in the same group at college so i see everyday (she dating a relitve of another person in same group) i had huge fight with her becouse of her best friend had a pro...
A. 12 December 2008: She has moved on. She is dating someone else now. I am afraid you had your chance and blew it. It is time for you to move on, too.... (read in full...)
Should I just be polite when I meet the 'other woman' at the office Christmas party?
Q. Hi last year my husband and I went through a really bad patch and he left me for a few months. Before we broke up though I found out that he had been flirting with one of the girls from his work. They had been sending text messages to eachother. ...
A. 12 December 2008: Personally I think you probably have nothing to worry about. Chances are she will do everything she can to AVOID you during the evening due to her embarrassment, not come up and introduce herself. Make sure you look extra hot that evening. Get your ... (read in full...)
Was I too young, was I actually raped?
Q. Well..during the summer this past summer I lost my virginity to who is now my ex boyfriend..But I was only 14 and I wanted to know if that was a little to early...Also my other thing is..I never told him I was ready and i never told him to ...
A. 8 December 2008: You were not raped as you never said no. He is not a mind reader and took your silence as consent. If he did not threaten you or physically force you and you never said no with either your body or your mouth, how can he have possibly known you did ... (read in full...)
After how badly she treated me should I take her back?
Q. So, this all starts a little over a year ago. I met this cute girl and I began talking to her, and getting to know her. We connected instantly, and became good friends. I asked her out, she accepted. Then we dated for about 10 months. I had fallen ...
A. 4 December 2008: I am very sorry about all this, but I am afraid you are being used. I do not think that she is neccesarily purposely or callously using you, but she is using you. You have offered her unconditional love and a steady support and love through all her ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her just once!
Q. Myself a physiotherapist, married with achild. I got in contact with an unmarried girl 10 years younger to me.She is very innocent and a beautifull girl. I was attracted towards her breasts. She also liked me but not sexually.She said that she wants ...
A. 4 December 2008: What you should do is stop any and all contact with this young lady. You say that the two of you want to be friends with each other and that is all lovely. However, it seems that the two of you (and you in particular) are unable to resist ... (read in full...)
Do you still bleed?
Q. Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even wen you have used a tampon before?? Also my boyfriend said that it takes about 3 minutes for sperm to come out is this is true? ...
A. 2 December 2008: A tampon may or may not break your hymen. Some people bleed the first time they have sex, some do not. There are really no absolute truths here. Everyone is differant. Most girls bleed and find their first time very, VERY painful. But there are a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend kept a previous relationship secret for no reason.
Q. A girl (lets call her A) has a dispute with her bf (lets call him R.) They have met whilst studying abroad and had a long distance relationship. Whilst abroad they were just dating, but their talks and the way they related to each other could be ...
A. 2 December 2008: Not telling the truth is a 'proper lie'. He lied to you. You asked his speifically about his relationship with C on several differant occasions and he outright lied about it. Wanting to keep things private is absolutely no excuse. He did not have to ... (read in full...)
How can someone change like this into a complete dickhead?
Q. I had a boyfriend of seven months. We split in june 08. He promised me the world told me he loved me and would never leave me and i thought that he meant every single word of everything he ever told me. I had never felt a love like it and feel i ...
A. 2 December 2008: While I completely agree with the previous Aunts advice on taking the time to actually get to know someone I do want to consider something else here. You state that he had a radical and sudden change. I am concerned that something else may be going ... (read in full...)
Trying to conceive...
Q. Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past 6 months, this month was messed up and didn't get to have sex until day 20, 23, and 24. Could I stand a chance of being pregnant, I know you couldn't say I would, however I understood it ...
A. 2 December 2008: I will not give advice to a child intentionally trying to conceive a child out of wedlock and before she is able to properly take care of the baby once it comes. Unless your age is misstated you are way too young to be trying to have a baby. You ... (read in full...)
Did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?
Q. i was in my room and experimetin with a ----- as my partents were not home, to start with it wouldni go in to my vigina and then i added a little water to it and it then when in really easy, but it went in really fast to andd i felt a small pain and ...
A. 2 December 2008: You may or may not have broken your hymen, but you are most definately still a virgin. Hymen presence has nothing whatsoever to do with virginity. Hymens are often broken due to tampons or vigourous activity. Virginity is lost when you have sexual ... (read in full...)
My husband has 2 children with his mistress and I feel lost and confused, what to do?
Q. I've been married for 20 years and we have 3 children. throughout my marriage my husband and I has had our hands full of ups and downs. I've had three affairs and he's had one long term affair of 15 years. He's forgiven me and I've forgiven him. At ...
A. 25 November 2008: How old are these children? If she did not want her daughters to have your children as siblings than she should not have laid down with your husband. She knew well enough that he was married and that he had children. She consciously and purposely ... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: I am in Ohio and have been through a divorce. If the two of you can be amenable then go through mediation. During the mediation process you will sit with a trained mediator who knows the ins and outs of divorce who will help you and your wife ... (read in full...)
I just realized I'm 6 months pregnant! Can I do anything now?
Q. I had sex(for 1 min) with my boy friend without any protection..I had no idea about pregnancy after sex because I was mad after my boy friend...But I am realising it now after six months...Till now I had no side-effects...Is it risky for me???Can I ...
A. 25 November 2008: Yes, there is something you can do ~ get your butt to the doctors and get under some proper care. Start researching putting your baby up for adoption as that would be the best thing both for it and for you. Also, are you sure you are pregnant? It is ... (read in full...)
My husband has 2 children with his mistress and I feel lost and confused, what to do?
Q. I've been married for 20 years and we have 3 children. throughout my marriage my husband and I has had our hands full of ups and downs. I've had three affairs and he's had one long term affair of 15 years. He's forgiven me and I've forgiven him. At ...
A. 25 November 2008: I think that the best thing he can do is consult a lawyer about setting up paternity and visitation rights. I know he doesnt want to put them through the 'sytem', but how bad do you really think that is? I highly doubt that they would need to be ... (read in full...)
I worry over my extremely unregular period! Anybody had similar experiences and/or know what to do?
Q. I started my period at the age of about 12. My periods have never been normal, I have them every other month as opposed to every month. Not long after I turned 16, I noticed that I hadn't had a period for about 3 months. I went to my doctor, who ...
A. 25 November 2008: Sometimes amenorhea (spelling?) is caused by being too skinny. You have to have a certain percentage of body fat to menstruate. If you are very athletic or very skinny that could cause you to stop your periods.... (read in full...)
Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?
Q. I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he ...
A. 25 November 2008: Thanks for the update. I hope you move on now yourself and good luck when you move back to your own country.... (read in full...)
Should I consider this marriage/relationship to be over or should I try to make it work?
Q. My husband and I have only been married for a year, but we have been together for over 4 years now. When we moved in together we got off to a bad start, I was pregnant with our son and I found out he was sending e-mails to other girls and always ...
A. 20 November 2008: Peoples definition of cheating varies. Some people consider chatting on line to be cheating, some do not. Apparently you of the former variety. Have you made this clear to him. He may consider it to be no big deal, he has done nothing wrong. But YOU ... (read in full...)
Can I ask my boyfriend to marry me while he's getting divorced?
Q. Can I get engaged while going through divorce?...
A. 20 November 2008: Certainly you can. I have known several people who have gotten engaged while divorcing. But really, what is the rush. While it is perfectly ok to date while divorcing, it is quite legal and should not have any bearing on the divorce process as long ... (read in full...)
Married spiritually but not legally and his ex won't leave!
Q. Hey everyone, this may make me sound like a bad person, but belive me I'm not! I have dated a married man for about 5 years on and off, he was having trouble with his marriage as he said but it was true and the last 2 years he had seperated from his ...
A. 20 November 2008: How can you get divorce religeously but not legally? How can you get married religeously but not legally? I cant think of any religeon that allows this! The two generally go hand in hand. No church that I know of is going to marry someone who is ... (read in full...)
I plan to propose to my girlfriend - how do you find this scenario?
Q. Hello, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend, she knows i want to marry her as we have talked openly about it, but she dosent know when im going to ask her. she is away at college at the moment and has been begging me for a puppy, so i plan on buy...
A. 20 November 2008: I think it is an adorable idea. You dont have to get all creative and cute though to make a marriage proposal. Just a sincere proposal will do it really. But your idea makes it a bit more fun! Good luck and let us know how it goes!... (read in full...)
I have to stay with my husband for another 2 and a half years for me to get residency here. Should I risk it all for the new guy?
Q. i have been married for 6 months and i am living in australia but i am english. my husband and i were in love but i got married so i could stay in Australia.He is so in love with me and i loved him but i have fallen for someone else. The new guy i ...
A. 20 November 2008: You seem a bit flakey to me. You were so in love with your husband, but a mere 4 months after making the ultimate commitment you are already cheating on him!?!?! You are now so in love with this new guy!?!?! What makes you think that this new love ... (read in full...)
Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?
Q. I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he ...
A. 20 November 2008: It is a little hard to gauge the answer here. It does seem to be conflicting information. I can understand why you are confused! But I will say this and you can determine if it seems pertinant. He may have been asking you to marry him, but not doing ... (read in full...)
Things have been much less stressful for me since I stopped dating...
Q. Ok, so about a month ago I wore off having any involvement with men. My last couple of relationships have just been awful. There was the guy who forgot to tell me he was married, then the guy who was meant to be my best friend but who after ...
A. 20 November 2008: Doesnt it seem that you always find someone just when you werent looking? I say give him a shot. Just a date or two should let you know if it is worth pursueing or if you should go back to your sworn celebacy. I do think it is probably best to not ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 17 November 2008: Fade ~ She isnt in Canada, the child is 7 and they are asking for big ticket items and extravagances, not just normal support.... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 17 November 2008: Yes. ... (read in full...)
Best aftershaves and perfumes???
Q. Hello, quick question. Girls, which (if any) (fairly cheap) colognes do you like the best? Guys, what do you think is best? I know it's not going to suddenly make all the girls in my school attracted to me, but I like to smell good. It creates a ...
A. 16 November 2008: Polo blue is very nice and great for a young man. It is also my sons favorite.... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 16 November 2008: I do know how hard this has been for you. As I said, I have been through it! One of the reasons you probably love this man is because he is so nice. I know thats how it is for me. He is so kind, so gentle, so loving. But I didnt like to see him ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 16 November 2008: Ok, now we are getting to the root of the problem. It is the ex! You see her as manipulative, demanding and as just using your husband. I understand. In my case the ex that I already mentioned was (IS!) manipulative, deceptive, lazy (she has been on ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 16 November 2008: Every year we have wonderful doctors who leave the medical field because of frivilous lawsuits alleging malpractice by people out to make a buck or blow a mountain into a molehill. Do NOT file against this man who was JUST DOING HIS JOB!!!! You did ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 14 November 2008: I have been thinking about your problem and I think we really need to get at the root of your issue. Is it the money? Is it the fact he didnt tell you the whole truth right away? Is it that the child is really a cousin?
Look, I understa... (read in full...)
Will we be safe enough with just a condom?
Q. Quick question: Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, however I am not on the pill or anything, will we be safe enough with just a condom?...
A. 14 November 2008: Yes, but a second birth control is a good back up, like spermacidal jelly or the pill. ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 13 November 2008: The fact that they are second cousins somehow ruined your happiness that your husband was stepping up to the responsibility of being this girls father? I must be missing something, but that seems an incredibly stupid reason to have had a change of ... (read in full...)
My husband is still taking care of his ex's daughter
Q. My Husband is lying! My husband and I have been together for 2 years. We have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. (I have 3 children from previous relationship) The problem lies within his past relationship with another woman. He started dating t...
A. 13 November 2008: Wow! This is an incredibly emotionally loaded question. I can understand very much how you feel. Because there is not the actual biological tie you feel your husband should move on and focus just on you and yours. But the thing is, he has been this ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 13 November 2008: No, dear, he did not take your virginity. You are still a virgin. He may have been alittle rougher with you than you would have liked, but it sounds like an internal exam to me! Internals are never confortable or easy and it is not uncommon to use ... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 4 November 2008: I am not concerned that he liked you when you were 14 and that he also likes you now. That he didnt pursue you when you were 14 shows he had a sence of decency and knew it was wrong at that time. Now that you are older it is fine! What does concern ... (read in full...)
He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!
Q. I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...
A. 30 October 2008: Go for it! Why not give it a shot now? As you have stated the age differance is not so important anymore as you are an adult. I had something very similar happen to me. When I was 13 I met a young man who was 20. We both liked each other very much ... (read in full...)
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