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I love our baby but not my wife. Do I stay or do I go?

Q.   Me and my wife recently have had a baby. He is now one month old and he is wonderful, I love him with all of my heart. The problem is I do not his Mum. We have been together for 15 years and married for 9. I am just not in love with her at all....

A.   2 April 2009: Hi, the baby is going to grow up with you an mom together, or not together. I believe you should do what you think is best for all partys. Staying with the Mother may complicate things in the future for the child's sake. think about how you will ... (read in full...)

Should I accept the fate of my 3 week marriage?

Q.   HI everyone, this is gonna be kind of long and hopefully that doesn't lose your interest. I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we just recently got married jan 10(this year) He used to be different, I don't even know who im with anymore, he ...

A.   2 April 2009: I wanted to let everyone know that... My husband that I wrote about on here did not even appear when I was time for me to go to court for full custody of my children.. My two boys are not his and he was one of my witnesses, he claimed he had the ... (read in full...)

I'm married but still in love with me ex. Should I give it a go with my ex and risk loosing everthing with my husband?

Q.   I'm married, but still love my ex. I have been married for nearly a year now, together for nearly 5, but I am still in love with my ex. We regulary text each other and occasionally see each other (not sexually). We both get on really well but he w...

A.   17 February 2009: In my answer I just left you, the last sentence makes no sense. I meant to type I would think the heart usually wins over the mind... Thank you...... (read in full...)

I'm married but still in love with me ex. Should I give it a go with my ex and risk loosing everthing with my husband?

Q.   I'm married, but still love my ex. I have been married for nearly a year now, together for nearly 5, but I am still in love with my ex. We regulary text each other and occasionally see each other (not sexually). We both get on really well but he w...

A.   17 February 2009: After reading all the responses to your question, I feel relieved that Now I know i'm not alone in this world. I used to be married to my children's father, but alot of things just took a tole on our marriage. We've been seperated for almost 5 Years ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?

Q.   My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...

A.   12 February 2009: No abortion, there are so many couples out there wanting children. Of course you have to weed out the ones that really may not have the best intentions of your child. I know alot of people that can't have children and they are great people. Abortion ... (read in full...)

Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?

Q.   I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...

A.   12 February 2009: Hi, I have been in your shoes in the past, I am not really sure what to say except to maybe change up on what kind of guys your dating. Usually a person will be attracted to the same kind of guy. I know I am. Kind of sit down and take a moment and ... (read in full...)

I think I'm bi-polar...

Q.   hey...is there a way to know you're bipolar without going to the doctor?. sometimes i think i'm bipolar because all of the sudden i start to cry and get angry at others for no reason..if you read this and your bipolar can you tell me some things ...

A.   9 February 2009: Bipolar has alot more things to it... are you manic? do you go on manic episodes such as shopping sprees even though you have bills? Now if your parents have it, you have about a 10 to 20 percent chance of having it. I know cause I am diagnosed ... (read in full...)

Should I accept the fate of my 3 week marriage?

Q.   HI everyone, this is gonna be kind of long and hopefully that doesn't lose your interest. I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we just recently got married jan 10(this year) He used to be different, I don't even know who im with anymore, he ...

A.   6 February 2009: things are better everyone, its working out slowly. it takes two.. thanks everyone for you answers... its sometimes nice to get different outlooks from people that are from all over the world. thank you... (read in full...)

I think he's upset because I'm not a virgin

Q.   I'm kind of freaked out about something (hence why I'm on this site): I'm not a virgin (only been with one guy) and the guy I REALLY like is a virgin and I don't know how he's taking that. I told him that I'm not and lately, he's been a little...not ...

A.   6 February 2009: I wouldn't worry about it too much,the past is a thing we can not take back. So why worry about it?? Ask him if he feels any different about you because of you not being a virgin. If it does bother him, see what can be done to resolve any bad ... (read in full...)

Slept with my boss and now he's lost interest

Q.   I've been at my job for a while and just over a month ago a new manager started. From the first time we meet i was attracted to him, there was a bit of subtle flirting for a week then we went out one night after work ended up getting drunk and ...

A.   6 February 2009: First off, never sleep with the boss, it gets so uncomfortable after that. Ask him up front about what he wants. Don't beat around the bush.. If he's kissing another woman when he knows your around, there's two different things that can be going ... (read in full...)

When I left the room I heard her kissing another guy--what do I do?

Q.   Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she ...

A.   30 January 2009: I'd drop her likes she hot, life way too short for that kind of stuff. If you got any self esteem, you'd leave her and not look back, Dont' worry about being lonely.... look in the mirror and always remember your better that that trash... never ... (read in full...)

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