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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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My boyfriend says we're only friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - for the first time in my life I am so seriously discouraged, I wonder what I can do to cheer myself up. They say publish or perish, but while you try to publish, your relationship perishes. Men run away from women struggling to make it in the ...

Does he hate me or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I was staying with my cousin but he would totally ignore me. The only time he didn't ignore me was when I was next to him or when we were alone. It seemed like he liked me but it also seemed like we were cousins. He would drink from my pop so would ...

I still love my ex-boyfriend, and my current boyfriend keeps pressuring me for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5071 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - ok so i really dont know what to do and i really need help. I had a bf before whose my ex taht i really still care for kinda care for and im kinda guy crazy. my ex is extremely sweet. not sex crazy like the guys now a days.hes respectful of my body ...

Girlfriend or potential, lucrative job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend of 1-1/2 years to death (though we've known each other for 11 years), and can't wait to propose to her someday. My girlfriend is extremely attached to me, and whenever I have been away for a few weeks, she gets upset. I...

I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am a 35 year old single mom with 2 girls. I have been dating a man that is 11 years younger than me for about 2 years now. I know that he loves me, but he doesn't spend time with my girls or come to any of my family gatherings. I get along great ...

Should I ask him why he stop calling me beautiful or babe?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hey well my bf used to always say "morning babe" or "morning beautiful" but lately he hasnt been he just says "morning". I miss him calling me that stuff do you think it would be ok if i asked why he stoped? Its only been like 3 or 4 days but i ...

Sex life died in the first year of marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" This is my third marriage. The first two were when I was quite young so I have definitely gotten over them. Then ten years ago, my daughter and only child died and shortly thereafter, my sig other of 20+ years dumped me for a bar ...

How can make my girlfriend be more open with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hello guys I have a big big problem right now, how can I make my girlfriend to be open to me, I'm really confused, she's everything I need from a girl but she never talks and worse she ain't open to me and we have together for almost 2 years now. ...

I don't think my fiance is fit to be a father... but how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - When I accepted to marry my fiance I knew that I would be giving up the family I have always wanted to have. Our parenting styles and ideas are too conflicted. I love him so much I'm willing to give this up, but recently he has started talking ...

She gave intimate details about me to my whole social network of friends. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I'll make this short... I met this great girl and we hit it off. We had our first date a few weeks ago. It was all going well until we had sex - for some reason I couldn't perform, it wouldn't stay hard. She said it was okay, but the date ended ki...

How long will the forgiving/forgetting period last before our relationship goes back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I were at this party together, and he broke up with me in a fit of anger because I supposedly left with another guy and came back. This is the same guy that caused trouble between me and my bf before. What makes it worse is ...

Please help me clear my head and pick myself up, I feel like I have lost my world

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13 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" Hiya i need some help clearing my head out. I've not had an easy past couple of weeks. My lifes feels like its gone for all to nothing. I feel in love with a friend of mine but never had the guts to tell him. He, alike me was also ...

In love with a married man and not sure what to believe!

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm in love with a married man and i need to spell it out! At first i didn't know he was married. we dated for 6 months and then i found out he was married. At that time I couldn't even suspect that he was married since he was spending al...

How do I deal with this bitterness towards the woman my partner cheated with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My partner cheated on me and this is not a question about him. I've been dealing with it with him. It's about the girl. I have taken so much anger out on him but she walked away with having no affect in her life and ruining mine. He knew her, h...

I feel I want more than snogging but I'm not totally sure what I want to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for 3 and a half months, he is the first boy I've kissed and the furthest we've gone is snogging, we're both 14 but I feel like I want more and im not sure what I want and what to do. If you could help i wou...

I'm worried he will never want to marry me because of my dysfunctional family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been dating the most amazing man for just over a year. Our relationship has been good but frequently peppered with recurrent craziness by me. I checked his facebook and emails because I thought he might cheat (with no evidence and I d...

I think I am too young to have a baby but I believe everything happens for a reason, so maybe this baby is meant to be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Please help, we really need advice... My fiance and I are getting married next year and we live together right now. In May we had unprotected sex and he finished inside me. The next day in the afternoon I took Plan B, so it was in the time ...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Im really confused about myself. Im a girl who has been out with a few guys, and i really enjoyed being with them. Im single right now, and im really close with my friends. when we see some guys at the pool or playing football with no t-shirt on, i ...

Do other people know if someone has had sex the night before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I don't want to disgust anyone with this question, but I want to know what goes on inside other people's heads. My question is...Do people wonder if they see someone walking down the street whether or not that person had sex the night before? ...

Wants baby but not marriage? We live together so why cant he marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Ok, here goes. I met a really great guy in November 2009 and he moved in with me a week later. It was like magic we got on very well and still do. In January he proposed and in March he told me he wants to postpone the wedding which was booked for ...

Set to be married next month, but things have been quite rocky. Needing advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hey, sorry that this is going be to quite lengthy. I apologize for any ranting. Lately my fiancée has been acting completely different than she has in the past. I love her more than I can explain, but have been questioning whether this is the righ...

I don't want my son to have a bad role model in the form of his dad, but then again I don't want to keep my son from having a father! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hi, So I have a problem with my son's father(20).A few days after he left me he was dating my little sister(14). They were dating for about 5 months, during this time he was smoking dope and had nothing to do with our son.He change into a completely ...

How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked ...

How can I tell him I'm in love with him and not scare him or make things awkward between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - ok im thinking about telling my best friend of the past 13 or 14 years that im in love with him and have been for the past 3 years, well maybe not the three years part cuz when we were still in high school we told each other who we liked, and for ...

What should I do to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up awhile ago BUT I still have to see him all the time. And no I'm not just "accidentally" running into him. My best friend(she's the mary kate to my ashley)'s boyfriend is one of his best friends so every time we go out, I always ...

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship and i decided to leave without any notice. I went to my college and met this guy there. Me and him hit it off great then my parents started getting annoyed with us so they kicked me out of the house and i ...

Is this some sort of psychological block I'm experiencing with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - So, I'm a 25 year old male virgin. I know, as sad as that sounds, I was overweight for most of my life and have recently lost a lot of weight and have begun experiencing the confidence boost and attention from females that comes with it. Anyw...

Intelect and the uneducated.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I'm not sure I should be dating. Here are some facts about us. She is beyond a masters degree, I have a HS diploma. She is highly intelectual, very smart. I am not the brightest bulb in the box. She is Jewish, I am ...

Only 17 years old living a very messed up adult life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I am in a very messy situation. I am 17 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We have an 11 month old daughter together. He is violent. (Name calling, put downs, death threats, pushed me, broken things) for the past 18 months he ...

Am I subconsciously pushing him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago i was having serious doubts about my boyfriend. He's a great guy, but i guess you could say he's not "everything i want." I decided to stick with him because i do love him. Now my feelings are pretty much back to normal, but i can't ...

Is our first anniversary too late to have a wedding celebration?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - My fiance and I are planning on getting married in Las Vegas next summer. We decided to only have two witnesses. We both want to have a party to celebrate with family and friends. But because of financial costs we may have to wait til our one year ...

My girlfriend is stunning, and this causes problems in public, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - Hello all. I've been with this girl for 2 months now, she is stunning, but this is a bit of a problem because whenever we go out, there is always someone staring at her behind or her legs or something, and if they aren't just staring, they'll say ...