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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I get mad at my husband if he doesn't loan my parents money?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and i have a savings account but he puts in the money but its for our future home, my parents need to barrow money and will give it back in 3 months and i know we have the amount they are looking for, my dad asked my husband and my husband said hell do his best. If ... (68 words)

Sweet comment from this cutie! What did it mean, though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a general inquiry about something this cutie told me. She's in her Mid-40's, slim, and is very cute. At any rate, yesterday, she told me that she enjoys having discussions with me about her stewardess job. I wonder if she’s slipped a hint of interest, or if she was ... (60 words)

Really heavy menstrual bleeding. Is this normal for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fourteen, and I've had my period since I was 11. It's been on and off which I know is normal, but it's recently settled down, and this month I've had a really long, heavy period. It started on the 11th and hasn't stopped since. It started off light but now it is seriously ... (140 words)

Am I being set up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Just need to know that i'm not being set up by an amature. He lives at home and is 5yrs older than i am and to adding to the scenario he has never been w/anyone. first time out I had called him. things moved too fast and already L word was in the pic. then 2nd time around he ... (317 words)

I feel for a senior, and I thought he felt the same way about me, but when he left for college, he told me I meant nothing to him. I miss him and I'm heart broken, how do I get passed this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This might be long, but I'll try to keep it short.. At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy who was a senior. He was on the football team, captian of the restling team, popular and of course gorgeous. But I did not know he was a player.... (668 words)

Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't see why he gets an iPad for 1 ... (180 words)

I feel depressed and lonely because I don't have a girlfriend to cuddle with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Every day i try to look for some good girls to date and that im interested in,but every body is taken. Some girls just not attracted to me at all. All my friends have GFs but me. Last week i went to my friend house and his GF came over and they was making out and cuddling ... (159 words)

Do you think he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr days. So he got home and a ... (214 words)

What kind of sexy lingerie should I buy? I feel fat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i really need help, me and my partner are going away for the weekend to see his family and staying in a hotel. hes paying and the thing is he wants me to wear sumthing sexy well where in the hotel, i dont have a clue what to wear as have never done anything like this before ... (202 words)

Should I be concerned about my boyfriend hanging out with this certain girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have argued about this girl he talks to before. She sent him a text a while back asking him to call her before he goes to sleep so she 'can give him something good to dream about' he never called her and when i confronted him he said she's just his friend and ... (184 words)

She broke my trust in her... what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i met one girl proposed her, she accept me with one condition need time to settle her other time pass love which is without sex, i said yes. in one year she went her ex room to settle with him lots of times, since i trust her i never said no to her. but now her ex sent me ... (121 words)

I no longer feel that I can trust my LDR boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I am on a long distance relationship for 3 years, I really love this guy to the point we were getting engaged and such. He hid from me the fact he went with a female friend to a concert, even after I confronted him. He deleted this friend from Facebook, and I... (346 words)

Should I let go and move on or fight for him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is his parents are so ... (266 words)

His marriage proposal left me cold, what is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years recently proposed to me, and I'm not sure if my emotional reaction to it is worrying or not? Basically, I didn't feel particularly happy or excited when he asked me, just confused, wondering why he's asked me, what's motivated him. I'm still feeling that way, ... (712 words)

Should I run or is he just insecure from being divorced twice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm frustrated and have told my boyfriend this on many an occasion. He is smart but I sometimes feel he is trying to outsmart me and tries to make me feel it's just in my head that I think he has too many issues and is clingy. He insists I answer phone and gets mad when I ... (462 words)

Where can I find the strength and security to let go of someone I still love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a struggle and I desperately need advice. I have sought out seeing a counselor but at this time cannot afford the cost. I have been in a relationship with a man I care deeply about for 5 yrs. the relationship progressed slower due to a long distance romance througho... (199 words)

My best friend and ex-boyfriend: inappropriate friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, I found out some information last night that is bugging/hurting me and i just would like opinions here. I was with this guy for three months(who i still really like) and he had hung out with my best friend a few times i guess so they werent that close (she h... (238 words)

What is everyone's take on your boy/girlfriend being friends with their ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've got a very basic question and would appreciate all the feedback I can get. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 3 months now, and minus a few bumps in the road here and there, we have a very stable, healthy relationship and a lot of trust in one another. With all that ... (251 words)

Anal sex makes me feel like I'm being ripped in half!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i have a question, my husband and i decided that we want to try anal, we use a lott of lub and go nice and slow but i cant stand the pain it just makes me want to scream. It feels like im being ripped in half, hes being patient with me and using lub and everything ... (65 words)

I'm pregnant trying to be friends with ex and the girl he got pregnant but its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 6months pregnant with my first child.The father and I are not together because he was very mean to me and mentally abused and took advantage of me and lied all the time.But for the sake of the baby I still remained friends with him because he has rights to the child.other ... (525 words)

How do I stop snapping at my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. So I'm 24 and living at home. Lately I have been so frustrated and I'm very impatient with my mum. I have been snapping at her and feel fed up with the constant questions of everyday life. I never moved out for uni as it was just a 15min bus journey away. I gradua... (133 words)

I wish I had stopped her wedding but I didn't so how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - looking for any advice about this situation. i have been friends with this girl since we were 8 years old, we have grown up together same schools and friendship groups. we got close at 15, seeing each other all the time, skyping and texting everyday. just before we turned ... (261 words)

Boyfriend needs to understand that sex isn't just about what he wants

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 16. We've been seeing each other for just over a year and about 6 months ago we had sex for the first time and it was his first time. even though it was his first time, he lasted longer than most and he had me in a lot of pain.... (278 words)

I need to get a grip -- flame out with one guy is getting in the way of another

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing a guy for a couple of months. At first he was keener than me, seemed a "decent" guy so I decided to give him a chance. Mistake. We dated once a weekish and things began to feel strained. I noticed I was texting him first. I began to feel he was not interested. But ... (544 words)

We are excited about our future together, but I cant help feeling miserable because it wont be happening any time soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a great relationship with my boyfriend. We both have the same kind of aspirations and have talked about moving in together/getting married/having children and so on. Thing is, these similar aspirations make me impatient because we're not living together yet and... (96 words)

The love has faded in my current relationship, and there is a new guy who I am falling for....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of seven years. We live together and have dogs. A few months ago my boyfriend told me he didn't think he wanted to marry me (maybe anyone) and it really upset me at the time. However now I feel like maybe he's right. For me the love has fade... (232 words)

My long distance boyfriend changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4251 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We both are sixteen years old. We met on facebook 2 months ago and he asked me for relationship after 1 month. I love him alot. Everything was going perfect between us. But today he changed ... (151 words)

I saw a picture he had drawn for an ex and it hurt me, how do I feel more secure about the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend use online art sites because we both love drawing and makings things and both of us have online galleries where we share our art with friends. I was looking through my boyfriends gallery and looked at a piece that was from 6 years ago. He had drawn it for... (213 words)

My boyfriend is struggling with work, how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is having a difficult time with work at the moment ~ he's stuck in a job that he really dislikes and he sometimes gets quite depressed over it. Basically his job is very repetitive and makes him feel unfulfilled ~ he's trying to break into a new area of work but ... (372 words)

Why wont men try and be friends with women they are not attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw a question on here that made me think, and made me want to ask one of my own. Why is it that women will try to be friends with men who they aren't attracted to, but men won't try to be friends with women they aren't attracted to? I know this can't be true for all men, but ... (493 words)

How to handle my disrespectful daughter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all I need some advice on my daughter and I we stay in to it as a child growing up I had no problems out of her soon as she got her period at 14 she started to hate me .Now she is nineteen going out with this young punk he's twenty no job stays home with his mom and has sex ... (145 words)

Younger b/f ended relationship because of my face book friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! am march 40 yrs and had a perfect relationship with a young man at 23. just 5 days ago this perfect relationship ended just because he discovered that i had a new account at fb. and i have male friends there too. we had been living-in together for 7 months but i have to ... (137 words)

B/f and I never get to see each other. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months but we hardly ever see each other. We go to different schools and usually try and see each other once a week, but for the past couple of months we have barely had that. We have never had a fight and both love each other ... (104 words)

I've decided not to speak to this guy anymore after he said when he's with me he feels like he's talking to a baboon. Am I right in deciding to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Before I go into details as to why I'm asking this question. Let me first ask the question aha, exactly how right am I for deciding this? You see, I am a sixteen year old girl, you know I'm young but a lot of people, well, grown ups say I'm mature for my age. My acting t... (738 words)

Do guys have to feel emotional about every girl they hook up with or is it normal to not feel anything once in a while

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met a girl at a party the other day and hung out 2 days later. I think she is cute but I do not feel any emotions at all for her. We made out for maybe over an hour, but I do not feel attached to her. I did not even get an erection. I am concerned for 2 reasons:... (170 words)

B/f doesn't feel comfortable having sex at my house!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - okay here is my situation, I am 24 and lost my job. I am living with grandma and my dad since they both sold their house and we now live in 3 bedroom apartment. The current situation is my dad is still not fully done with moving from the old house so he is not always here, but ... (379 words)

What do I say when people ask "why don't you have a girlfriend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I tend to get asked this every now and then, and I just can't help but feel down and frustrated when they ask why I don't have a girlfriend. One, and pretty much the main, reason is that I just haven't bothered. Don't get me wrong, having a girlfriend would be great, but it... (221 words)

I didn't give him my phone number when he wanted it, but now I like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so theres this guy that i like.Last year he asked for my number through my friend. i was not intrestrd at the time but now i am i find that hes so adorable. so should i try and talk to him and aplogize for being rude or should i just leave him alone??... (54 words)

How do I tell my friend that just because she's dating doesn't mean that everyone wants to date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Yesterday i took my best friend to the restuarant to eat. While we were there..a certain guy who works there asked for my numbers and i told him that my phone just got destroyed so i had no cellphone at that moment (i lied). Well sure he didnt believe me but i was getting ... (251 words)

I have been told that guys won't bother to try to spend time with a girl as only a "friend".

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It's the age old question: Does he like me as more than a friend? Simply put: A coworker continues to invite me to lunch. He is from another country so he is hard to read. I feel like he is just trying to make friends, or he is being polite by suggesting that we "do it again"... (94 words)

Am I just suffering from the 'grass-is-greener' syndrome? I am so disappointed with myself for not being able to find a man that fits me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in two long-term relationships for most of my adult life. In my first marriage, I was pretty much starved for conversation, as my husband wasn't much of a talker. When he got home at night I'd ask how his day went, he'd grunt without really saying a thing, so I'd ... (513 words)

Am I bound by this contract?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I live and am employed in California. When we were hired, we signed a contract stating we must give a 1 months notice before quitting. I want to leave as soon as possible because I have a new job offer but I still have to stay an extra month. Do I have to abide by the contract? ... (84 words)

Long Distance to Married w Kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age - I've been dating a man for 11 months now. It is a long distance relationship but we see each other every two weeks for four days at a time or more and we talk every night. It didn't take long after we first started dating to start talking about a future together. We both ... (218 words)

Contacted the wife of the Ex-Boyfriend she reconnected with on Facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

25 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A follow up qustion from a few months ago. My wife's High School Crush and first sex partner from 18 years ago contacted her on Facebook. I posted about this a while back and my question is not about the contact itself between them. But a quick summary of the contact; ... (686 words)

What should I do on my 19th birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4253 days ago

25 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my 19th birthday is in 2 months and i have no idea what to do!i like to get drunk and have a good time but i dont know where to go or what to do does anybody have any ideas?... (40 words)