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writes:Hi, I went to a prty a few weeks ago and took my best friend along for some moral support coz I like the guy who's party it was. So she got quite tipsy and was all over him, I just put it down to the drink, but the next week I caught the 2 of them red handed. All they'd done was kiss but it still hurt me. He was drunk at this point but she wasn't.I told her how I felt about him and she was quite apologetic. I know she wouldn't intentionally do anything to hurt me and vice versa.We've been texting each other quite a bit and I've spoken to him over MSN. I see him every week as well but I don't know what to do. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't really know how to go about telling him how I feel, or whether I should. I want him to know coz I can't keep speaking to him with him being so oblivious. We are friends but it's frustrating coz I can't tell whether he just likes me as a friend or maybe more, so frustrated, can anyone help?Thank you :)
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Well first things first i know how you feel about a mate sorta getting with a guy you like.but anyways the only way you'll find out it just right out and ask him.i mean the worst he can say is no, but at least you'll still have his friendship and sometimes that's better than having a relationship and who knows what can build up from there.if it's easier for you to text him it and say it or tell him on msn if your a bit shy.but that is the only way you'll find out is if you ask other wise you'll spend all your time wondering and questioning the what ifs?at least when you tell him you can finally know where you stand and either move on or make a move,Good luck hun :)
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