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writes:I wonder what do you call it when a man goes from one woman to another woman within six weeks?But at first he would constantly call her then he quit calling her now he is back calling her. Could he be in love with this woman? Has he already forgotten about his ex that he has just got of a relationship with. I would think that a man needs to get to know a woman first before giving her money and doing all these nice things for her or is it just me that think this? Or is it that he moved on so fast because he did not want to feel the hurt and pain from the ex that he was dating before he got with her?Can somebody explain this to me.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (19 March 2013):
A man moving to another woman six weeks after a breakup?
I think there is a psycho-technical word for that. Its NORMAL.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (19 March 2013):
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You don't call it anything you just avoid them
He sounds like he knew her well beforehand and was deciding on a relationship with her and his feelings for her,now he has decided and is free to date her and spoil her or do whatever he wants
People think about an ex,not deeply, just briefly in passing if they see a film or something on tv maybe that they had seen together.In time probably not at all though,new memories replace the old, we all move on
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 March 2013):
 I think a lot depends from whose idea was to break up. If he is the one who has been dumped, maybe he is looking for a quick rebound, a way to distract himself from the hurt and disappointment and move on fast. If he was the dumper, chances are that he could not wait to get out of the relationship and now he is enjoying his newfound freedom , including the freedom of going by trial and error with women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2013): It could be any of those things or none of those things. I don't know this guy very well to be able to tell you exactly what might be going through his head.
I think it could be:
1. He is a player and just trying to find a sure thing.
2. He could really like her, get annoyed, stop calling, start calling to find out if there is something there.
3. Typical male and he can't decide what the hell he wants.
4. Men, despite what many people say, are pretty complicated creatures, perhaps he is going through something emotional and isn't sure himself of what he is doing.
I hoped this helped (probably not) but you should talk to him, if you know him well enough. Most men appreciate a woman who is to the point and honest. Cuts through all of the bull.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2013): I don't think there is an actual word or label to describe a man who jumps from one relationship to another within weeks. Maybe, a player? And, yes, a man can just meet a woman and take her out, get her gifts, treat her like a queen very quickly, within weeks of just meeting her. In fact, a lot of men show their best face at the very beginning of a relationship. Don't forget, men will often do for another woman what they didn't do for you. That is why you should always insist on THE BEST from him. Cause if he is not doing it for you, he WILL do it for somebody else. It's not because she is better. It is because she required more from him. Don't forget that. But since you mention that he called her, quit calling then started again... in that case it sounds like this may have been someone he had on his mind for awhile. And NO, he is not doing all this for another woman to disguise the pain he feels from his break up. Men are wired differently than woman. There is only one reason why he would be wining and dining somebody else. It is because his interest in her is REAL.And yes he probably does still think of you. You don't just forget someone overnight. But probably not in the way you would like. I am sure you have crossed his mind, at best.
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