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female
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26-29,
*urlyq8
writes:So my ex and I have been broken up for a couple months now..and he was my first official bf. We texted last week and he brought some stuff up when I asked what he was up to, he mentioned "I was sitting in the garage with my dad, and we saw this guy dropping his girl friend off and they were kissing in the driveway and I thought of me and you and it was nice to remember." We actually talked a while after that.. probably the longest conversation we have had ever sense we broke up. The other night he brought up the idea of sex. I asked him "you could do it with any other girl, why me?" His response was "Because you're the one I really trust. I know if we did it neither of us would tell anybody and I know you. Your really sweet and not one of those bitchy girls. And your super hot." I told him I didn't like the idea of just hooking up with the "no strings attatched" and he said he understood and apologized for trying to push me into it that I didnt have to if I didnt want to. Is he just playing a game with me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 March 2013):
 he wants to get laid
stop being "friends" with ex boyfriends... there is no need to be anything more than civil and friendly when you run into him... nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2013): Yes!!!! He is playing a game, the i only want sex from you but I don't you want to know so i'm going to hook you through your feelings game. Don't do it, he wants sex. That's it.
Don't do it, you'll get hurt.
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reader, llifton +, writes (19 March 2013):
 he's not really playing a game with you. he's testing the water to see if you'd be down to be his booty call. he wants sex with no strings attached, exactly like you said.
don't do it. it'll only wind up more than likely hurting you in the end, as this will be the only thing he'll want from you. just sex. that's my two cents.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (19 March 2013):
 Im thinking he is appealing to ur emotions in order to get laid. So yes playing a game.
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