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writes:If your husband forwarded an email to another woman (work colleague) called 'Track your partner. Careful!!' which shows a google earth type thing which gradually homes in on your postcode and shows two people in the back garden sh*gging, would you think he is making sexual advances or could it just be taken as a joke? My discovery of this is causing no end of heartache but I can't tell him I have access to his emails or he'd go mad and if he changes his password, I'll not be able to check any more. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 February 2009):
Haha, that sounds like a really funny website! Send us a link!
Firstly: IT WAS A JOKE
Secondly: Why are you checking his emails? What business of yours?
If you don;t trust him then tell him so he can make an effort to prove that he's not trust worthy. Don't let yourself turn into one of those women that acts like a prison warder to their partner because of paranoia. It will only drive him away.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Taken by itself I do not take this email as a sexual advance in the least. I do not think it would be sent to someone to try to get them interested in a sexual liason. If my boyfriend sent this email to another woman I would not be concerned at all. Actually I would think he would send it to me as well and we would have a good laugh over it! It is the kind of thing that is supposed to make your jaw drop in amazement and embarrasment for the couple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi k c 100, There has also been a texting issue with this woman which is resolved now but I think that is the root of my fears. This email was sent when their texting began and I now wonder if it was meant to get her interested in the first place but I don't want him to know I have access as I said. Thanks for your answer sweetie.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Well I would see that as a joke; at the moment there are a number of joke "partner tracker" software packages that are going around for mobile phones and computers - it isnt real it is just meant to be a joke.
But the fact that you are constantly checking his emails shows you dont trust him. You need to ask yourself why you dont trust him. Has he cheated before? Does he act suspiciously? Does he get text messages/calls at innapropriate times (late at night etc)? If you think he is cheating then confront him (without telling him about your access to his emails). But if you cannot find any other behavioural or physical evidence that he is cheating then you need to figure out why you cant trust him.
Possibly the issue lies with you and you need to seek some therapy to try and discover the reason behind your lack of trust.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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