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writes:Got myself in to a bit of a messy situation. I was at the bus stop and there was a guy who got talking to me and started chatting me up. We got on the same bus together and he we chatted some more - just small talk. He seemed nice and so when he asked for my number I gave it to him - (bad idea I know...). Anyways, he started texting me A LOT, and asked if I wanted to meet up for a drink, so I thought "what's the worst that could happen?" and so went along. Got talking to him and found out I have nothing in common with him, we are two very different people. And I know opposites attract, but it's really not even like that. It reminds me of that film "knocked up" - it's really that bad! He is a bit sexist, really too forward, and said some pretty homophobic things as well... which I found quite offensive as my best friend is gay and I'm bisexual - he doesn't know that though. I thought after the drink he would have realised we have no spark, nothing in common and there is no way we are going to have anything between us. But he didn't! And now he just keeps texting me all the time. I'm trying to get on with my work but he is constantly texting asking where I am, what I am doing, do I want to meet up again, come round to his etc... And it's really awkward, because he lives just around the corner from me. Please help. How do I tell this guy I am really not interested? He's really in to me and I only met him 3 days ago!
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reader, Variety +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Be honest. Say it was nice to meet him but you don't want to pursue anything further. Or if that sounds to harsh then just say you are really busy at the moment but will get in touch with him when you have free time. Or say that you've recently got out of a relationship and aren't ready for anything else. Hope this helps. PM me if you want to talk more. x
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