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*utie1195
writes:Hi people, this morning I was walking down the hall of my school with my friends and then I meet up with my best friend. We were walking down the hall and we go past my boyfriend and all my friends say that they saw him hug and kiss a different girl on the cheek. Would you consider that cheating on me with a diffirent girl?
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (28 March 2009):
Everyone is different and for me, if I seen my boyfriend kiss another girl on the cheek and hug her, I would consider it cheating. If you trust what your friends say, then confront him about it.
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reader, Kepi  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 He could be congratulating her for doing something, they could be close friends, family, or maybe your friends are lying? Ask him, don't get mad, just ask :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Maybe it was his sister?
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reader, CrazyMind +, writes (27 March 2009):
 For some people, they may see hugging someone and kissing them on the cheek acceptable [mouth = no], but others may see it as totally inappropriate if they're with another person.
Ask your boyfriend if he did or not - and don't reject if he denies it - he may be lying, but equally your friends may be lying - you don't know.
Talk with your boyfriend about boundaries with other people, and where you both think the boundaries are in relationships with others.
That is: can you hug another person? (i'd say this was fine
can you kiss another person on the cheek? (discuss)
can you kiss another person on the lips? (I'd say no)
You both need to be clear about - and happy with - where the boundaries lie. Also, the boundaries should be the same for both of you.
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Without clearly knowing where your boundaries are, you can't clearly state it is cheating. (If you did know where the boundaries are, you wouldn't have to ask if it was cheating or not, as you'd already have agreed what is acceptable and what isn't.)
- Crazy x
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reader, pkna travz +, writes (27 March 2009):
 No,
Talk to him...maybe is just a friend......
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): No... seems just about every young person i know greets friends in this way. Relax
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): enough for a yellow card - yes.
talk to him ask him...
Star.x.
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reader, r4nd0menough2luvu +, writes (27 March 2009):
 yah! hun that would be called cheating. He is doing sexual things with other girls even kissing them on the cheek. Telll him ask him why he is doing that. If you left this go he will keep cheating and later on maybe even more bad things.
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