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reader, der_zyniker  +, writes (26 September 2010):
Just leave it alone. No offense, but asking him to throw it away wasn't the smartest move. I'd just leave it alone. After all, has he really done anything wrong? It would have been a better move if you just said that you felt uncomfortable with him displaying it like that and asked him to put it in a less visible spot or just asked him to take it down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for all the help, it bugs me becuase i think she has a crush on him and there faces is close togather in the pic and its hanging up in his room. He asked what he should do with it i said throw it away and he was like what ever and i dont know if it would be a good idea to bring it up again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): no of course not! its just a photo for goodness sake. I have lots of pictures of me and my male friends and my bf has lots of pictures of him and his female friends - and yes we are hugging because thats what most people do in photos - doesnt automatically mean we're all sleeping together
you obviously dont trust him and are extremely insecure if u feel threatened by photo
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 depends on the picture ... if a picture of them winning a race together for example, no, if a picture of them cuddling up yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): most likely. but u need to talk to him regarding this matter :) goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Yes I would, if he displayed it for all to see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): yes i would
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reader, jimrich +, writes (25 September 2010):
LOL, not me! My self esteem is high enough and good enough that such things would not bother me. Plus I have enough relationship understanding to confront my partner if such a thing did bother me.
Have you told him how you feel and have you told him what you want done about it?
I'd recommend that you do a web search or go to a book store, library or magazine stand (there's lots of relationship books out there) and learn all about effective communications in a relationship to resolve this & other issues.
good luck
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (25 September 2010):
I wouldn't think anything of it. I wouldn't think of her as a girl. Just think of her as a friend of his and nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Not neccesarily. Unless I felt a trust issue, Id properly address it with him. Good luck.
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reader, Jo-CX/ +, writes (25 September 2010):
 yes!
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