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writes:How do you know it's really completely "over"?We never had the talk but I left him because he was being a complete jerk. We were never "committed, exclusive" but casually dating for 4 months.He was on medication from a recent surgery and one night got drunk and was all over another girl at a party. (i was there) I had no choice, I had to walked.. However a part of me wants him back because I miss him a lot, we got along like best friends. I know I can't call him or contact him. I have my pride and dignity. However,i still wish he would come apologizing and beg me for forgiveness and try to win me back. So if he just let me go does that means he never really cared/loved me in the first place right? What is the longest a man can go without calling a girl before you know that he's moved on. We use to talk, text everyday and now not having him in my life feels so sad. He use to talk about he future and now it seems like all a waste of time to share your life with someone and then it's all over. I heard if a man doesn't contact you within 6 weeks, he's completely out of your life. Is this true?Btw. i don't even want him as a boyfriend anymore. I just miss him so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I'm worth more and better than him.
Its just i can't understand how a man that tells you he loves/cares about you, plan and talk about the future and has 2 daughters he adores do this to women. He played me making me believe we had something special but it wasn't.
I feel like a fool for believing him. I fell for him and his charm. I know time will heal me, but my ego wants to believe that he will miss me and the fun times we had together. I guess i want to believe that I was that special girl that he will miss.
I guess this is what i get for falling for "bad boys".
I thought he had a heart of gold but i have to see him for what he is. A complete and utter jerk/ass
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (20 January 2009):
 I know this isn't really the answer you want but I'm going to tell you anyway.
This guy doesn't care about you. If he could make out with another girl in front of you (alcohol is no excuse), he's a creep and you're well rid of him.
I doubt he ever really cared about you in the first case as he'd have made some effort to be in touch since this aweful episode.
Your feelings and pride have been hurt. You care about him so it's natural you're missing him, but put him out of your life. Go out and have a good time.
It'll take time but you'll get over him. You're worth more than this.
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