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writes: I have a really good relationship with a guy, we are not going out, but see each other up to 3 times a week and talk via text and on the phone every single day. He knows I have feelings for him, and has confessed to my close friend that really likes me, is very attracted to me and when he is ready to get into a relationship again he wants to be with me. In some ways he has also told me this and I pick up on things from the way he looks at me and I have told him I will wait till he is ready. My problem is I really dont know how long I can wait as I desperatly want to be with him now. I want him to know that by letting me in his life it wont change anything he will still have his freedom etc I dont want to trap him because im an indepdent lady myself. Just dont know how to tell him. He is really hard to talk to in person at times has this huge barrier built up due to past hurt so when things get so bad I write to him for a release. Im going on holiday for a week at the end of Nov and dont plan on contacting him whilst away make him miss me. Do you think I should write to him and tell him exactly what im feeling now and that im not sure how long I can wait no more or could this backfire on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2006): i reckon b4 u go on hol u shud tell him..n then not contact him ova the holz..let him think it ova..give him the date ur cuming bak on...and if he feels the same tell him to txt u a 'yes' or a 'no' on the day u get back...good luck..keep us posted..freind x
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reader, jack23 +, writes (24 October 2006):
 I think the situation is just waiting for one of you to make the first move. I believe the best thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel rather the talking to other people.
If you are both interested in each other, then it wont make any difference whether you get together now or a few months down the line. He is most likly worried about putting his foot in it, and not having you respond in the way he wants.
I would suggest sitting down and talking to him and just explaining what has been going through your head, then give him chance to explain what he thinks and feels.
This will give you a better understanding and then you can both freely decide what you want to do. If not I think you will both just be sitting ducks and wasteing time which will prob result in you both just going seperate ways.
Hope this advice helps :)
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