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Would a sex doll help me become better in bed??

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Question - (11 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, so ive been living the single life for a few months now and I am looking to get back on the dating scene when I go back to college next week.

To boost my confidence, I was wondering if buying a sex doll or one of those realistic molded vaginas would help me learn to and practice pleasing women better. Like helping me to find all the areas to touch to make her have orgasms, as I read in all these articles.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

I can't help feeling this is one of those spoof questions. However:

Unless the doll can tell you what feels good and what doesn't, it won't be much use to you. You need a real woman rather than a plastic one to give you accurate feedback. Plastic can't talk. How many women ask a dildo if it feels good for 'him'?

Get a life, fer gawd's sake!

Phil

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntWhoa.

No.

No.

and No.

Inflateable sex dolls are as anatomicly correct as a 5 year olds drawing of a day out at the circus.

the so called realistic vaginas vary. you can spend from $30-$200. what you see on the box ain't what you get, try opening them up and having a look. as for the insides.. not even close. a sculptor adds bumps and wrinkl;es to add more pleasure. if you are bored with masturbation then sure this might be the way to go. look out for the Silicone ones as they're more skin like.

as for it teaching you the ways of a women... find yourself a 30+ year old dame and have her teach you the ways of the force.

Theres nothing quite like the real thing. and theres nothing quite like real experience.

Oh better yet. spend your money on a high class hooker.

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A male reader, anon_e_mouse United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2008):

anon_e_mouse agony aunt"To boost my confidence, I was wondering if buying a sex doll or one of those realistic molded vaginas would help me learn to and practice pleasing women better"

No. I don't think playing around with a bit of plastic is going to do anything for you in this area.

The only way you're going to get better at pleasing the opposite sex is by really getting to know them. When you meet someone right for you, you'll learn what they like and what "buttons to press".

Likewise girls get to know what "floats your boat". The only way, in my opinion, is to just experiment and learn from it.

In my case I got together with my first love and we were together for 5-6 years. I was a virgin and hadn't even kissed a girl before I met her. I remember my first time - I lasted about 10 seconds and didn't know what to do. She taught me everything I know and I've picked up more things along the way.

What works for some girls doesn't for others. Getting a sex doll isn't going to help.

I don't see how sticking it to a plastic doll, or plastic vagina is really going to help you. You might as well shag your teddy bear for all the help it's going to do you but that's my opinion.

GET OUT THERE. MEET SOMEONE THROUGH DATING AND EXPERIMENT A LITTLE. YOU'LL QUICKLY LEARN WHAT SHE LIKES AND WHAT SHE DOESN'T.

Good luck :)

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