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anonymous
writes:Does a woman who is happily married want to know if she has a harmless 'secret admirer'? Does it flatter her, or complicate her marriage? If someone has fallen for her, but has no intention of ever pursuing her, does she want to know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): Thanks ladies.
Men have a completely different perspective, I am glad I asked. We men like to flatter you, but I guess you don't feel flattered when the feeling isn't mutual.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 May 2011):
 I do not want to know if someone has a 'thing' for me. It would make the admirer appear to be a bit 'ooky,' a mix of spooky and icky. It's inappropriate. She's married. What do you hope to accomplish? I'd say don't do it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 May 2011):
 I have to agree with the other ladies. I wouldn't want to know either, in fact it would creep me out. Been there done that - burned the T-shirt. AWKWARD!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 I'd say no, if she is really happily married she could not care less about admirers and she could even be annoyed that he's got the cheek to approach her.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 I would say no, I wouldnt want to know - if I were the woman and a man came up to me and told me that he was attracted to me/had feelings for me, it would make me very uncomfortable and I would do my best to avoid that man in the future.
So unless you want to make it awkward and uncomfortable with this woman, then keep your feelings to yourself.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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