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writes:I had sex with my boyfriend twice tonight and the he really wanted to try anal so I let him (this was my first time at anal) after he finished I put his hand down there to finger me and he said I felt really swollen so I checked and struggled to get 1 finger comfortably inside. Is this normal? Or should I be worried?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (18 May 2011):
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Firstly I hope he was wearing protection when entering? This is the worst way to get infections. If you are worried about this, I suggest you visit your Dr, as this dont sound right to me either. Unless you get checked over I would not have sexual contact, in case of any kind of infection. Some women can get very tight through excitment, but not so tight they struggle to put a finger inside. I dont think its anything to worry too much about either so dont panic :/ getting checked is just to put your mind at ease. It may well be that as this was your first time for anal sex, your body acted differently to how others would react. We are all different. If you enjoyed it then you could have tightend and needed a little time to relax. Either way to be on the safe side get it checked by a professional Dr.
I hope this has helped
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reader, Romanilove +, writes (18 May 2011):
The swelling with both the anus and the vagina can be due to the intercourse. The friction has probably irritated it them. The Vagina can swell do to the rough intercourse as well as the anus itself. As for the anal sex, your anal canal is not used to anything penetrating it- if this is your first time. The penis has irritated the anal canal. The swelling of the anus is close to the vagina, so that may be another explanation.
Another reason for swelling can be allergy to a latex condom.
If this is the reason, you should contact your promptly health care provider or go to the emergency room.
Anyway, thats just my opinion don't take this as medical advice.
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reader, laundrydog +, writes (18 May 2011):
I'm not sure if it's normal, but it is normal for your vagina to contract and get tight after you've orgasmed.
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