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writes:This is a question to women in general. How would you react to the guy you love, if he hurts your feelings in some way, knowingly or unknowingly? Would you reject him straight away or would you give him a second chance, or talk about it with him? I greatly fear getting rejected by the girl i like and try to become over-cautious when talking with her or when i am sitting with her. I need some honest opinions, thanks... Reply to this Question
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Same way as I would react if any woman hurt my feelings unknowingly or knowingly:
1. I'd ask for a clarification of the statement which hurt me in order to ensure that it's not a matter of miscommunication.
2. If after clarification I still feel insulted or hurt I'd let the person know of my feelings and await their reaction.
3. If they fail to respond with an apology all hell will break loose. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): My bf unknowingly hurts my feelings sometimes. Its usually when he says something and doesnt realise its gonna hurt my feelings Most of the time i just point out that it hurts my feelings and we move on to the next thing. All women are different tho
I think you are a lil like me. You get quite anxious over lil things Im a real worrier and find this make things worse as you look for something to worry about
Because you fear being over cautious you actually end up giving off vibes to tell people this. I was terrified about telling my bf im a worried but he soon worked it out and everything was fine I know its easier said than done but just try to relax and enjoy the good things when your with the girl you like
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