A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey there:)Basically I'm 16 and my boyfriend of 2 months is 18, and he lives quite far away and we have exams at the moment so haven't seen each other as much as we would have wanted.As we haven't spent too much time with him I haven't been able to talk much face to face about sex or things we'd like to do with each other, although we have fooled around quite a number of times when we've met, or ask if he's a virgin.I was wondering if anyone could give me any advice about how to go about bringing up the subject as we haven't yet discussed it openly and I'm not sure if I'd be moving too fast if I did.As said before I'm also not sure how to find out if he's a virgin or not, or rather to tell him that I'm not, as I don't want to keep things from him but it might be a bit awkward to go blurting it out..Should just leave it a bit until we're closer? Yes i am probably worrying too much! but hey that's me, and I do apologise for the sorry ESSAY of a question as well folks, I know how annoying they can be!Any help would be much appreciatedCheers:) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
Be up front and ask him about his experiences. As a potential partner, it's your right to know. You also need to wait, otherwise he could get into serious trouble.
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