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anonymous
writes:This is probably the most embarassing question ever posted here: I am ashamed of using the position woman on top because I have very few experience(only had 1 partner and we only tried several others) and, most importantly because although I have a nice body, my breasts are rather large and I would be more concerned about the "image" left on the retina of the man, most certainly not the best ... how can I improve my confidence to use this position? Or should I just let it go so that I don't make a fool of myself while attempting to do it in a sexy manner?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 August 2011):
 There is simply no reason I can think of to be ashamed or embarrassed while "riding" in the woman-on-top position. If your boobs flop a bit, a good male lover would just grab them and massage your nipples while you enjoy. It's also possible for the guy to rise up and give nipples a good sucking. It's a terrific position, and be sure to use occasional grinding-like moves in this position!By the way, the male should be thrusting upward with full erection in response to almost all your moves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): Try a reverse cowgirl position first to gain confidence in being on top.
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reader, bunnyblueeyes  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 You need to stop thinking about this!!! You're worrying and over analysing it when you should be letting go and enjoying it. My body isn't the best, my breasts are too big for my frame. But my parner loves every bit of me.
Men love women of all shapes and sizes. And there is nothing sexier than a women taking control.
Enjoy yourself
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 I can't imagine how the image left on his retinas could be better. I'm sure he is very happy -- most men quite like the position and the image. Don't worry -- you're almost certainly giving him the thrill of a lifetime.
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