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writes: I miss the sex with him, and can't fathom being sexual with anyone else other then him. What should I do?We broke up and he moved out back to his house which ia 250 miles from me. I started driving up to see him again, but he pushed us living back together every time we would get together. I wasn't ready for that again, plus I have my kids to consider.It was all or nothing with him, and now I have nothing. We just weren't compatible together, except in the sexual department, that was awesome. It was loving, intimate, kinky at times, relaxing, all that, and I miss it, and I miss it with him, and don't want to with anyone else.I truly believe deep down inside that we are meant for each other, but I can't bring myself to submit to him, and my kids didn't care for him very much, but I think a lot of it was because he sucked up my time, was a bit jealous and possesive and was not their father.I am lost and lonely without him, but at the same time I am glad he is not part of my life anymore. What is it, purely sexual, or do I love him and not know it, what is it and what should I do?
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reader, Delila +, writes (27 September 2005):
You are suffering withdrawls. Literally it sounds like!!! I don't know, but I think that some guys are good at sex and not much else!! That's the truth. If he is not interested in being just your sex toy well there is not much that can be done. I wouldn't lose hope of ever finding a guy who is as good again. There are a lot of them out there, it's even better if you get one who is a darling to live with, makes you breakfast in bed, gets on great with your kids AND is a great ride! Believe me they are out there, you just got to know what you are looking for and don't settle for anything less!
Best of luck.
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