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anonymous
writes:I just wish that i had a guy that love me for who i am and the way i look:( i cant stand a guy that is a cheater and a man whore. I have been cheated on and guys just like me cuz of my butt and my boobs. I just want someone who will care for me and protect me and take up for me and isn't ashamed of me. I just wish.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 January 2010):
Men are initially attracted to the outside. Once they get to know you, then they are attracted to your personality as well. Which is why the rule of thumb is: don't have sex with a guy unless you have known him for a while. It takes time for a guy to form a bond that will last after sex. At your age, about a year is a good time to date someone before sleeping with them. When you are in your 20's and for the rest of your life, the 3 months wait rule is the best insurance policy to reduce feeling used by some loser. Guys are able to easily have sex without feeling anything emotional for you. If you want to know if he is for real then make him wait. If he is rushing you after a few weeks then you will be used as his ego boost and dumped.
And you must realise that your bum and boobs are assets; don't see them as a negative thing. As you get older you will see how much your sex appeal coupled with your brains are such an asset. Less endowed women are paying thousands of dollars to get bums and boobs because in the real world, that's what men look for initially. Brains are a bonus. The trick is not giving it up easy!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 January 2010):
Wishes can come true. But they can take a bit of work. There is a guy out there who will love you and accept you for who you are. Get to know men, speak to them but don't go out with them so you understand them. Take your time getting to know a guy you like so you know whether he likes you. There is a guy out there, but you just have to work your way through the rubbish ones.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (13 January 2010):
 You do realise you havnt actually asked a question.but here goes Theres many levels of attraction and when all the levels add up you can end up with a relation ship, intially your butt and boobs will attract a guy because thats all they have to go on untill they talk to you and get to kno you and trust me if they dont like your personality who you are and they way you make them feel they wont stick around just because you have a nice rack. Your young as you get older you will understand, You also need to learn to stand up for your self do not keep running back to the guy that is mistreating you.
Theres probably a guy out there rite now that your completly ignoring that would really be good for you, and when you find him dont make him pay for how guys treated you in the pass every guy is a new person and deserves there fair chance.
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