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writes:hi everyone and thanks agin for the help. ok i finally got to talk to my ex after 13 days away from her.mind you i did most of the talking. i did alot of thinking during my time without her.i figured my faults out and what i was doing wrong in the relationship and what she had been wanting the whole time. we where together for 8 years and i just cant give up on her i luv this girl. at first she wouldnt answer any of my calls or textes but has been lately getting back to me little by little we been throw alot together but me and her both havent cheated and this wasnt an abusive relastionship we just had or moments with aguring.after all or fights i been able to get her back. the break ups never even lasted a day or two. i did the whole flowers and ballons thing already also sent a card that i wrote how i felt about her in.i even went as far to make a sing with ballons and wrote. i luv and i miss u. give this another chance on it and hung it by her work. where she would see it just to show her i really luv her and i dont care who knows it.afew hours before i talked with her yesturday. i texted and asked why it was so hard to talk to me and why she ignors me? she sent me a text that said'shes not ignoring me its just not easy to talk to me' also before she has said. that if she talks to me its how i try to get her to change her mind. i think she still luvs me and cares deeply but she saying she doest want to be with me anymore but then goes on to say it 'might' be to late to fix thing. im glad the she is some what returning my textes and im not calling anymore .she said when we talked that i had 5 mins to say what i needed to but we talked for an hour and im glad she listened to me and she did say that i was right about everything and happy that i figured out what i was doing worng. my qestion is now that she is returing my texts and giving me achance to say how i feel and me understanding what i did wrong is it possible that i could get another chance to be with her? i know theres more work that needs to happin with or relationship. but this is the girl i am going to change overnight for if i should get the chance. ladies please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): Only time will tell.It does sound like you are doing some self reflection which is fantastic and always beneficial if you are true to yourself. She does appear to be open to a certain extent to communication which is a good sign as well. Allow her the space that she needs at the moment and let her know in a loving and accepting way that you are there for her.If it is meant to be, it will be. Be prepared to move in any appropriate direction.There is a history between you so I believe that anything is possible at the moment. Keep on keepin on...
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reader, adamskidude  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 Oh god o.o block text, i can even begin to read that.
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