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*oreyLuvinDani
writes:i have to move house with my parents and leave my girlfriend that ive been with for around 3 months.Basically my mum and her boyfriend loves wales and the go there quite often camping, and had been looking for houses to buy without me realising!about 2 weeks ago i found out they have brought a house and in around 4 weeks we are moving our stuff and moving down there!i currently live by evesham, which is a good 2 hour drive away!its kind of complicated but, me and my girlfriend was going out for around 2 months, both our parents knew because we was with each other everyday, but we split up for about 2 weeks for certain reasons with her family, but were back together and even more in love than before, and her parents know about us getting back together but i havn't told my mum yet!So she assumes im single and wont have a problem moving.ive told my girlfriend, and we've discussed it, and because i still have my close family around evesham, im assuming we would be visiting fairly often aswell as my mums boyfriend has 2 young girls (because he is getting divorced)and he looks after them every 2 weekends,and we have a caravan by my house now, so my mum was talking about staying in the caravan whenever he has the girls, so every 2 weeks i could come down deffinately or the weekend!These are all the things ive discussed with my girlfriend and she has told me she doesnt want to lose me knowmatter what, and i feel the same, we want to try some kinda of relationship still, and like i said if i tell my mum she may be aloud to stay at my new house during holidays aswell!Im currently 16 and next may (my birthday) i will be hopefully getting my own car and learning to drive, so i can drive myself down, but obviously this is in about 8months time!Im looking forward to a fresh start in wales, but im SO Dissapointed i have to leave her behind! :(Im moving in around 4 weeks, and she is on holiday ATM for 2 weeks, and i said its kind of like a test, and i really miss her, but why wouldnt!We both have Msn Messenger so could talk to each other and have webcams which we use anyway,Im on contract on my phone so i have ALOT of minutes which i could spend ringing her if she wanted.....But, im worried its just not guna work the way we've planned, like seein each other every 2 weeks max, and sleeping over etc...I wonder if i should talk about it with my mum, but then again i have this feeling she would be dissapointed because if ive got this connection here then its going to mean more travelling for me to see her, which im not sure about trains ect...plus they could be expensive for a 2 hour journey?!?!I Just Really Need Some Advice, my heads messed up thinking about it, and thinking about us, and i want it to work more than anything but just have doubts!Thanks for reading :)Coreyy x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2009):
It can work, but it will take a lot of commitment. All yoou cna do is make sure she knows you love her, make sure she knows you care. Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain, so you both need to be very committed. I think at your age that might be very hard, but make sure you talk to your girlfriend about your fears, she might be able to reassure you.
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reader, unique899  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 aww ask your mum to not move.
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