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writes:I'm married he's not. He says I shouldn't divorce just to be with him. He talks about our future together. Its not that much sex but it is good sex. We've been seeing each other for 2 plus yrs. He tells me to have patienill all work out. I know I don't want to be married to my husband anymore. Will my boyfriend come through for me or is he stringing me along?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (5 January 2013):
 He talks about your future but doesn't want you to leave your husband?...it seems he is happy with the arrangement as it is. It would be better if you could sort your own life out without having to rely on men to tell you what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2013): There's always the option to be single if you're not happily married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2013): Its a decision you have to make. Take the chance or don't take the chance. Affairs are very risky and from what I've commonly read on DC, often end in disaster.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 January 2013):
There's no way for anyone here to know one way or another.
What does it matter? If he isn't serious are you just going to stay with your husband until you find a new guy that you can jump into another relationship with?
Sorry if this sounds harsh but being dependant on men is probably what led you to marry the wrong guy in the first place.
Do the right thing: leave your husband. If your boyfriend goes with you he does, if he doesn't he doesn't.
If I HAVE to guess based on the little information you provided, it sounds like he likes you but enjoys things the way they are. Some guys get a kick out of sleeping with married women, or at least they like the lack of commitment.
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