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30-35,
*rincessSmithee
writes:I was sort of seeing this guy about 5 months ago, we got on really well ..etc etc. But in th end he turned out to be an idiot, who used me and never spoke to me again until 3 months later. (aplogising on a text, but i told him we are okie but its hard being friends so lets just leave it)I dleted him out my life and it killed me, and thanks to him my confidence is at rock bottom, im in couselling and physco-therapy becuase ive always had self esteem problems and mild depression, but he made me so happy it kind of stopped for a while. And after he did that to me i was and still am 10 times worse.I seen him near my house like 2 weeks ago and we had a genral chat and he tied to add me on facebook when we got home (like the 5th time since he used me) i accepeted him thsi time (stupidly) Since we've been speaking again, hes texting me soemtimes, and tlaking lots, even asked if i wanted to go to a gig just me and him! Maybe hes just a player right? He lives round the corner so its awful, i see him alteats once a week, and today i seen him with this really pretty girl. They seemed so happy i dont know if they were seeing each other but i wont put it past him, hes having sex with her for sure becuase hes had sex with like 17 girls.When i seen him today in a shop, i went up and said hi, and he just kinda mumbled hi with a smile.. and carried on tlaking to her. then he walked straight past me when he walked out the shop :(broke my heart.I dont know what to do, i love his personality we still get on really well. but i cant take it.should i dlete him out my life again?It will look really patehic though if i dlete him after i seen him with a girl.Its killing me though, HELPPP :( ive been crying so much
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2009):
I think you're going to get really hurt by this guy to be honest. It doesn't matter what others think. If anyone accuses you of being pathetic, just tell them that you're trying to get over him and the only way for you to do that is to stop contact.
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reader, L*  +, writes (23 October 2009):
i agree with the previous poster. just delete the guy and try to forget him. it will be difficult to get him off your mind but you need to distract yourself and put some distance between the two of you. put yourself first, stop contact with him and don't worry about what he (or others) will think of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): FFS. Just cos he was with a girl doesn't mean that he was speaking with a girl doesn't mean that they are going out and PLUS even if they were IT WOULD BE NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS , he doesn't even know you like him. You even ignored his request to take you to a gig, foolish or what.
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