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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): I agree with the others on the age thing, I am 17 and just lost my virginity to my long term boyfriend but made sure I was fully informed before doing anything and also that this boy wasn't in it for sex alone.
For me sex didn't hurt abit which was really weird as like you, when i have been asking around the normal answer was 'its hurts like hell' but for me, i had practised on a dildo and am very active sports wise and always wore tampons so it didn't hurt at all.
Just make sure its TRUELY the right thing you want to be doing and that you are doing it for the correct reasons.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Even if he's gentle, it will still probably hurt. Maybe not quite as much as if he had slammed into you without foreplay, but it will still be painful. You're still getting an outside intruder trying to push up inside you.
I would wait until you're a little older, your body a little more seasoned and ready for such a big move, both physically and emotionally. If you insist on having sex now, ONLY with protections and lots of foreplay and patience.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (25 November 2008):
yes
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (25 November 2008):
It will hurt to a degree no matter what the first time. It will hurt less if you dont have your hymen which there is a good chance you dont because it can broken so easy: a tampon, falling funny, riding a horse, ect. My advce for you is to use lube because you are going to have to stretch to his size and the wetter it especially one the out side the less it will hurt when he goes in becase there wont be friction. Also the size of him will determine how much it hurts. This is why girls have the saying bigger isn't aways better because bigger means more pain.Good Luck and I hope its special!
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Quite probably yes. If your hymen hasn't broken, it will hurt and you're quite likely to bleed. If your hymen has broken, from sport, or tampon use, it wont hurt very much and you wont bleed.Make sure you're ready though, you're only 13-15, that means you're between 5 and 3 years off the legal age, which means it's illegal. The legal age is there for a reason. Make sure your decision is definately the right decision for you! Good luck x
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