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writes:Dear cupid, I’m a 13 year old girl; I like a boy the same age as me for 6 years. Ok, when people say that boys like a girl but they don't show it, they always start of being mean. Well that's what happened to me, at first when I was in year 3 the teacher always made us sit in register order but as well girl boy girl boy etc... and I sat next to this boy (the one I’ve liked for the past 6 years) well at 1st he was nice and we were friends and the same thing happened in year 4 we were friends and had to sit next to each other every lesson. To cut a long story short he was mean to me in year 5 and I was nice to him. Towards the end of the year I noticed I liked him, but I didn’t get why I liked him because as soon as we were in year 5 he was mean to me, we didn’t talk, we weren’t friends and basically he annoyed me. Well what it seemed to me was he liked my friend who sat next to him every lesson, and I knew she liked him, cause were friends she told me, and mostly cause of that reason I never bothered telling him how I feel. But it really annoyed me when he was mean to me, and he use to take the piss out of everything for example:In R.E class we were talking about a particular religion, the teacher was asking whether any one knows or heard the cultural song and then I remembered it was in some film and then I go I’ve heard it in some film and then the boy I like goes you must know cause you participate in it and you sing it all the time. And then he laughed I felt like giving him a couple of slaps, but I was in class and I knew I would get in trouble. He said really mean things to me which just made me think how on earth did I even start liking him. Then in year 6, I was fed up off being nice to him and in return him being mean to me so that year I was mean to him and just didn’t care what he had to say (the last year in primary school) I still liked him but I never told any one or mentioned or gave a hint, I just kept my mouth shut, that year he really got me thinking, he was mean but I think not that mean, and he would look at me or stare and I’d noticed he was looking most times I ignored it then at times I put my head down on the table so the stationary box covered my face, or I’d on purpose act like I was listening to the teacher and know what she is on about when I don’t. But then at times he was mean, like one time the teacher blamed something on me that was really serious and I had nothing to do with it, but I still got in trouble really bad I tried explaining but the teachers never seemed to listen all I will hear is “I’m going to tell your parents, don’t think your getting away with it that easily”then the teacher started saying some mean things to me, and I was crying and then I went to get my bag and coat from my class and the boy I fancy was there and he was looking at me and I don’t know what he was saying to his mates but they were laughing, but I never bothered, but then when I came back in the afternoon every one kept asking me what happened and he was looking at me, as if he cared.There are so many times he was mean to me or took the piss out of me, or blazed me. But then when we had non uniform day, I always had the best clothes on and I got a prize. He just looked at me all day, which was annoying. Then when it was close to the end of the year , everyone was getting signatures of each other and I got it of all the teachers, and then all my friends, (I didn’t have any male friends) and then this boy who sat opposite me on the same table as me, he asked whether he could sign my autograph book, I said “yes” and he singed it and then all the boys signed it, but except the one I like, everyone was saying to him to sign it but he wouldn’t, I was telling the rest of them to give me the autograph book back and that I don’t care if he don’t sign it but they just wouldn’t, they kept saying sign it sign it sign it but he refused. I went and up to him and said “can I have it back, or are you going to take a million years to sign it, if you want sign it sign it if you don’t then give me the book.” He gave me it back and I carried on as If nothing happened. Cause it was the last day coming close and the teacher put music on and said dance, I didn’t bother I was just sitting watching and then my friends came and said to dance but I didn’t want to, then finally one mate was tiered and sat down and we were talking and I noticed the boy I like was too busy looking at a girls ass shaking while she danced. I wasn’t happy but I just acted like everything was normal. Then I really noticed I liked him because I was really hugely jealous. Then the last day of school was over and at home time, the boy I like was in the teachers classroom leaving her some chocolates and I was looking what he was doing, and then the girl he was too busy looking at her ass when everyone was dancing was next to me and she was waiting for him with a couple of mates and I asked why she waiting and she go she is going to tell him how she feels, and the boy I like smiled but was confusing whether he was smiling at me or the girl next to me, well anyways I was waiting to see what he says to her, and he was coming closer and she goes she is too shy and went, and she goes that she will tell him on the way home. He was coming out the classroom and I was going to tell him how I feel, but I never saw the point so I just quickly went. Well after that I heard that girl did tell him how she felt but don’t know what he said. Past 2 years I and he don’t go to the same school, but I still like him, I see him all the time when I go school, he’s always looking at me. And I wanted to know does it sound like he likes me? Also the girl who fancied him I have got her msn address and were friends, but her nickname is to do with a boy could be the one I like. Does it sound like there together? Is he worth it? Should I tell him? Is there anyway I could forget him?
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reader, LouLee +, writes (4 January 2008):
 I totally agree with electronica, ideas to try and get hm out of your head? hmm...first of all, i would try to chat to more people at school, boys and girls, including flirting, it may not make a difference on how you feel towards him but it will keep you occupied...thats the only thing i can really say, erm if you didnt look at this guy maybe you'd not want him as much when he looked at you back...sorry i havent helped much hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): any suggestions of how to forget him and get him out my head?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): does it make any difference that he's a muslim?
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