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writes:Hi I am 23 I have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years. My sister was logged on to her facebook showing my mom pictures of my boyfriend. When we looked through them I realized there were a few incriminating photos and a video (him hanging out and partying with girls I don’t know) that I cannot see from my profile. Is this possible to do as it was only about 5 photos from separate events? Why would he do this as surely my sister would have told me, do you think I should confront him or would I sound like I was stalking him? Thank you for your help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone who answered my question you guys are really great, I confronted him about it and he made me feel really stupid so I guess that says alot about our relationship. Im taking some time on my own thank you guys so much for you support x
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reader, MRS.SCOOTA  +, writes (28 July 2009):
yes but talk calmly
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 July 2009):
 I don't think you sound stalkerish. It's not as if you were poking around or being creepy monitoring his computer. You were on a different computer, showing your Mom pictures and you came across these pictures and videos you had never seen before... sounds legit to me. They could have been posted on someone else's profile, who he is friends with and not you - and that could be why you couldn't see them through your Facebook.
All though things might be innocent, I think this still deserves some answers from your boyfriend. I would bring it up and see what he has to say. Don't attack him, just ask. If he gets jumpy and defensive, you may have something to worry about... but if he gives you an explanation, leave it at that. If he's given you no reason to distrust him in 4 years, I would trust what he says...
Good luck!
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