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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i used to Love my school teacher, he was everything to me.I thought we were meant to be and i loved being with him he made me feel important and loved, i hated being away from him. Sometimes it would feel like he loved me to i knew it and sometimes he would lead me on, look at me in a certain way or touch me in places. But it wasn't going to work cause he had a fiancee and my family definately wouldn't approve, also cause i wouldn't be able to see him all of summer so i ended up trying to get over him and let him go cause i didn't want to feel empty through summer and after summer he wouldn't be my teacher anyway. I'm in a new relationship now cause its been ages since.....i like him but its long distance so i'm not sure if i still fancy him. But its not as strong as it was with my teacher, i don't feel loved or important. i hate it when he says he loves me cause i don't love him. I hate it when he says i'm cute when i say or do something. Will i ever feel like my teacher made me feel again or is this me stuck with numbness? I still feel something for my teacher like a connection and want him to talk to me, but i know nothing will happen. So help me, Do i like this guy or not will i feel like my teacher made me feel again or not?
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (12 August 2009):
ok.
i remember when i was at shcool at your age.
and i fancied my english teacher he used to make me melt inside but it wasnt "LOVE".
i realized that it was never ever going to happen he had a wife and kids and that he was way older than me.
and if your teacher was touching you in certain places this isnt good please tell somebody as he could be touching some other poor girl in certain places aswell.
maube its time for you to just grow up a little and accsept reality.
best of luck with this new guy.
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reader, xAx +, writes (12 August 2009):
 Pedofile or not, he is inappropriately touching you. Yes, i totally agree it is hard to fall in love with someone, but you have to wait.
Also, you have no idea what this teacher may be like in a relationship. Men are all interested in the same thing, the difference is how they can by it. Not all boys touch will touch you up, so just keep looking. You are young and have a lot of time to find mr.right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that easy to just find another guy to fall in love with, thsi is only my second boyfriend cause every guy i know are idiots and like to feel me up. He was the first guy i'd met that i was actually responsable and he was cute and nice and the guys at my school can be cute but horrors and the not cute ones, total gentle men.
Also my teacher isn't a peido or whatever, he didn't touch me like that, just like take my hand for a minute or when swimming he put his hand on my lower back where it was bear. I don't think it was a big deal well it was cause he was touching me but not in that way.
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reader, xAx +, writes (12 August 2009):
If what you say is true, your teacher is a pedofile. These people you have to stay away from.
And the way he apparently makes you feel, someone else will make you feel the same way your teacher made you feel. There are mannyy, many boys in the world out there better for you, more your age. When you are 18, the age difference won't matter, so wait til then if you found out that you are interested in older boys.
Also, it is really normal for a girl to like a teacher. I've done it and know many girls who do aswell. I don't think what you feel is love for your teacher. I think you feel infatuated and happy that someone that old could potentially like you. Please do forget this teacher. And if you don't love your boyfriend them dump him, find another boy.
Hope this helps. X
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