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*ittle tiny girl
writes:Ok well I have a friend and I just became friends with him since last week and so I told him something I should of not told him. I texted him just to talk since i'm bored. It first started when I told him I went to my first counseling appointment and he asked me "what for?" and I told him, "promise you won't tell?" and he said "yes" and so I told him how I might have ADHD and told him some other personal things and after I texted him that, he was like "what the fuck?" and I told him I had a bad child hood growing up and then he said "I'm scared of you now" and I texted him twice about it but he didn't texted back. And now i'm afraid that I lost a friend I just had. Does anyone think he will still talk to me after I scared him?
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reader, Little tiny girl +, writes (20 August 2011):
Little tiny girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for the answers :) i feel better already :)
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reader, Little tiny girl +, writes (17 June 2011):
Little tiny girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks you for the advice :) I will be moving forward and forgetting this guy so yeah I will be getting better for the condition I have and think positive for myself. Thank you all :p 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Looks like you were trying to prematurely bond with this boy you'd only known a week by telling him information that was way too personal in nature and it pushed him away. Boys aren't interested in building trauma bonds and are more drawn to girls who make them feel good and stay positive.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 If he cant handle you or being with you after you got vulnerable and revealed personal details about yourself,youre better off crossing such people off the checklist of friends in your life and instead keep open to those who can support you,build you up as a person and add value to your life
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Hi sweetie, you know what just don't worry about it as hard as that sounds, the more confidence you have and can manage to 'fake' until you truly are a confident person - the better this situation will be.Just focus on how to feel good and pay good attention to your diet, stress can deplete your body of certain nutrients and good bacteria which has an affect on ADHD.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (16 June 2011):
 He may just be freaked out and come back later. But think about it this way, do you want to keep company who can't accept you for who you are, personal problems and all? I tend to keep my circle of friends close and tight so I know they accept me. Sometimes people get scared, even if their reasons are silly or immature.Really, this guy sounds like a bit of a jerk. Honestly, saying 'What the f#§%?' and 'I'm scared of you now' after someone shares something personal? That's not okay, he could have at least been respectful. At least that's my take on this.
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