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writes:my husband an i after 4 years of marriage we getting devorce,i fall for my devorce papers 6months ago,we have 2 years old daughter,now we're separated,it all happend before 2 years when i discover that he was with another woman,anyway that story is finish the moment when i found out.we have too many discussion we lost faith but we're still jealous to eachother. Anyway we both made so many mistakes and already 2 years we're going like this. we live separated but we never stop see each other,and sleep together,we cant.what i should i do...i tried but i cant talk to him to come back home,he's avoiding me and afraid of questions.Should i think he'll stop with everything and come back home?
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reader, quarky  +, writes (5 October 2008):
 I'm afraid the answer is probably 'no'. It sounds likely that all you guys have now is sex now and again. This isn't unusual-certainly happened to me. Sooner or later, you'll have to stop sleeping with him and let him go-he'll probably continue to want to sleep with you but you have to take a stand and say no-for your own sake. It won't be easy but you have to make a break, be your own person - without him- and move on. It may take time and effort but I'm willing to bet you and your daughter will be better off and you'll realise that when you get the guilt, hurt, or whatever else is put into perspective. Take good care x.
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