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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): If you really feel up to it and want to "test the waters" text back. I suggest you keep it very "cool" and say something like "thinking about you too".
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust wanted to thankx for the advice. It turned out that he didnt text me for a week because he said it seemed like i wasn't interested. i guess i was over reacting. Yesterday he invited me to watch a movie at his house and he said he really liked me. We had fun and it was the first time that we acctually got close. He even text me this morning saying that i got him thinking bout me.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 October 2008):
Ah, so you don't mind that he is a jerk and may hurt you badly when he gets bored of the chase the game playing?In that case just text back that you miss him and want to meet. It's only a text, it's not exactly showing up at his house at 3am crying.If he's genuine then no problem, if he's a jerk then he'll meet you use you and move on.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo my question still is what should I say when he texts me saying that he misses me? Should I tell him I miss him too or should I not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your comments. I do want to get to know him I just don't know if he is playing games by him texting me a week later or if he was just giving me space. I don't know..I guess I'm just confused since I'm not sure what this guy really thinks. He has been doing all the texting at first. Maybe I should start. I don't really know how to ask a guy to meet me somewhere or to hang out w/out sounding like I'm desperate..any advice on how I should ask him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008):
As confusing as this guy might be; you sound very level headed and don't let him "mess' you around.
Ignore him and find some body that is worthy of you; somebody that will value an appreciate you and who are consistent; it sounds as if this guy is a player; personally I think you deserve much better; you should have somebody that is there for you everyday, not just when it suits him or when he needs you.
Good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 October 2008):
Well if he acted like a jerk then perhaps he is a jerk?
He could be playing mind games or just be an idiot. Either way, not exactly great boyfriend potential.
I'd stop replying to his texts and find someone new if I was you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, shiraz +, writes (5 October 2008):
hiyahh, you need to serously think if you want this guy? you called him a jerk and that you werent interested so just move on! hes not going to chase you cuz your playing hard to get if you generally have no interest in him then end it he cant guess your mind.
However if you want to get to know him more then arange to meet up yourself it has to work both ways, im sorry this is sounding so harsh and i get what your saying but its up to you i mean hes got back in touch meaning the ball is now in your court. hes not putting pressure on you by constantly texting and arranging to meet hes leaving it to you, do you want it?
hope it goes ok sorry this was so blunt maybe i misinturprted your question? best of luck x :)
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