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30-35,
*ostsoul666
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2years July frist he is a great guy but he won't get a job he won't get a drivers lisence . We moved in together and I pay all the and I'm 20 and he's 22. Will he ever grow up?
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reader, Christinaa +, writes (29 June 2010):
 I think you need to give him a wake-up call and let him know the consequences if he doesnt get a job or attempt to get a license!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): I would say if he's able to work and drive, then he should try and get the job, not mooch, some people in the world tho, cannot work due to a disablity or drive because of those disabilities, I am one of them, but I do make $, I wish like hell I could work, and it sucks.
But I would say a guy who is able to work and drive, should definetly get off his ass and do so, if two people live together they both should have an income and support eachother, one person should NOT support another.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Oh dear. You did the classic female thing and that that he would mature and change if you told him to. He hasn't. And he won't. You've gone and walked into it. You should never have moved in while he was like this. I'd suggest that you now set him a time limit to get a job and if he doesn't, end it. Never think a man will suddenly change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Nope. And if you don't like it now, you won't like it down the road. Get rid of him now. If you don't, he'll never learn, and why would he think he needs to when he has it so easy right now?
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