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*weetLipsX0
writes:So my boyfriend of 3 months and i, were hanging out this evening. Everything was going good, until he went through my phone. (yea UH OH) I wasn't really paying attention though, but then he saw a picture......and asked me who it was. Of course i was honest, and told him the truth. MY EX. And to make it all worst, the caption for the picture said "My Love". So of course he automatically got mad at me. I started to explain to him that i only kept his picture because he was one of my best friends. (which is true)So i erased the picture, and told my bf that i loved him and only him, and that i only want to be with him, and since he told me not to talk to my ex i haven't. So right now hes mad at me and doesn't want to talk to me. Oh and this is the 3 time he gets mad over something about my ex. Do you think he would break up with me because of this? And what should i say/ do?? I really do love him, and want nothing to do with my ex.
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reader, SweetLipsX0 +, writes (17 June 2011):
SweetLipsX0 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Alright so my boyfriend and i talked this morning , and things weren't so good. So i was like do you want us to take a break? He said he didn't want to because then he thinks things wouldn't be the same between us. So the conversation was dull, and we barely talked. Awhile back he called me, and things were better, we were laughing and acting like we always do. (& all about my ex stuff, hes just jealous because me and my ex were together for 11 months, i mean i understand why, but its not like me and my ex talk. Not because he told me to, but just because my ex doesn't want to talk to me. So we're still talking right now, all good =)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 June 2011):
I'll refer you to my new article on emotional abuse. The reason is because before your relationship has really started, your boyfriend is showing signs of someone who will control you and cause you pain.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/subtle-signs-of-emotional-abuse.html
DO NOT allow someone to go through your personal belongings, search for things, then blame you for it. Ever. Your boyfriend sounds jealous, unstable and controlling. Perhaps you need to think about whether you want to be treated this way, or whether there is someone better out there. Because you can be sure of one thing - he will NOT change.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (17 June 2011):
 Sounds like ur bf is 'the jealous type' and this jealousy will only increase and get worse...
But don't EVER let him tell you who you can and can't talk to hun.
As for him breaking up with you over this, i don't know if he will or not. So if you're serious about wanting nothing more to do with your ex (because YOU want to, not because HE wants you to) then you'll have to get rid of every scrap of him from your phone.
Let us know what happens anyway :)
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