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writes:Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings for me. From the beginning we knew, we could not be in a long term relationship, as we have gathered for studies from different countries. Now its time for us to move apart.I wanna hav sex with him. He has left the decision upon me.Will this affect my life with the person who will become my life partner in nearby future.Reply... soon...
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 December 2008):
 It depends - are you a virgin? If you're a virgin, you should wait. Your first time having sex hurts and doesn't get better until you've had lots of practice, so save it until you can really enjoy the process of losing your virginity and enjoying sex. Having a painful, awkward first time probably isn't the way that you want to leave things with your honey. So, if you're a virgin, I would save your virginity for your life partner (or at least the next love of your life). It is too special and (eventually) awesome to blow on a night when you'll never SEE the guy again!
If you're NOT a virgin, what the hell? You had a good relationship with this guy and closing it with sex is a romantic, sweet way to part ways.
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Woah Blossom.. Most people don't lose their virginity to their life partners is okay.. But having sex with someone even after knowing that you won't be together is rather gross.. I mean.. I see no point in it.. What's the point having sex when they are about to part ways.? IT CAN HURT HER FUTURE RELATIONSHIP..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): The majority of people don't lose their virginity to their so-called life partner! (Many people don't have a life partner at all!) If you love him and the feeling is mutual, it will be a good memory to take away with you and if you don't do it you might part wishing you had. So go for it =]
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (11 December 2008):
IT WILL HURT YOUR FUTURE..
Would you be able to have sex with your husband.? Won't the feeling of having sex with someone you knew won't be yours hurt you all your life.? We normally have sex with the person we think will be our partner for life.. Don't we.
I appriceate your love for him.. But love is far beyond Sex.. You can still love him without having sex.. Preserve yourself to the point where you know you're with your life partner.. That's my advice..
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): if you love him, go for it hun.
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