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anonymous
writes: Can anger management help a husband who has been abusive when frustrated, angry, or hurt? It has gotten worse over the months and I think it will just get worse without some kind of help. Is it a long process? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 June 2010):
Not unless he knows he has a problem. And by the sound of it, he does't. And yes it is a long process. Years. No one changes overnight. Also, it now depends on the level of abuse you have to endure. You shouldn't be at there taking all this from him. Unless he knows he has a problem, you need to walk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): No, he does not perceive he has a problem. He's only going because I've been adamant that I'm not returning home or to our marriage until he gets some help. He has decided to go but doesn't feel he has a problem. A matter of fact, he keeps asking if I'll come back and work on our marriage now that he's going.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 June 2010):
Does he perceive he has a problem?
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