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*armenSandiego
writes:I'm in a very long distance relationship and I'm starting to panic ! We talk for hours during the week. Its always "I love you so much, you're so perfect, I want to marry you" 24/7 were in contact. When the weekend comes however, he vanishes. He doesn't respond to my texts,calls. He says he'll be home around 2.. never happens. So whats the deal? You can't text the person "that you want to spend the rest of your life with"? It takes 10 seconds. Is this guy just feeding me lines while he looks for his local replacement of me?
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reader, thekiddie.  +, writes (26 June 2010):
It seems like you could be right, or you could be paranoid.
why dont you talk to him about it? altho you both may be madly in love and he wants to marry you, long distance relationships faulter.
Soon, he'll get fed up and just go find a girl who he can see on a regular basis.
ask him why he doesnt reply, but make sure you arnt being too obbsessive about it, as he may be annoyed by that.
if you want my opinion, Dump him and find a guy in your area, so you'll know if his just ditching you :)
Hope i helped x
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 It's possible although he has genuine feelings for you, he could be two timing you. But the thing is how will you prove this? Wanna know? Just turn up one weekend as a surprise visit. if he's flustered and confused that you turned up and has some sort of guard up then there is something to worry about. If not and he's happy to see you then all is good.
Try that first. Secondly, start making plans to be together NOW, there is no point in being far away from each other. just work it out.
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