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writes: still a virgin at thirty one will i get the man my heart like, will he respect me for keeping virgin for all those year waiting for him to be the first to break? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): In addition to what dirtball said..It is true that a good man will cherish you saving yourself..but rather think of it as something you did for yourself..cos you have really saved yourself a lot of heartache...trust me. Be careful to find a good man and dont assume because you saved yourself you would have an easy relationship. You have to be discerning in your choice of partner
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (4 March 2011):
For me that would be a turn on, something more respectable than anything else. So good for you!
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (4 March 2011):
Usually, a good man would appreciate it, but it also depends on the individual culture. If you saved yourself until this age, you should be aiming for a guy who's able to appreciate it, IF your virginity is important to you that is. There are men who brag about this, that they're the first to "pop the cherry" and after that they dump you. But this won't happen to you if you're choosing the right man.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 March 2011):
A good man will cherish the fact you saved yourself. We never know what our life will bring though.
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