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anonymous
writes:when i first met her it seemed perfect, after being together for a while we discussed sexual pasts in some detail and neither of us were bothered by it. We used to have sex like rabbits, 2-10 times daily and it was great passionate sex that was amazing, nowhere was too crazy, work, cars, with people in the room. Now that we've been married for a little while it just about all went away. no more sexual exploration, no more multiple times per day, once a week if im very lucky, and when we do have sex i have to initiate it and she just lays there like a dead fish totally silent till im done. ive talked with her about it and less sex doesnt bother her. whats been bothering me is that all her past partners she was the same way with, nothing too crazy. my question is why does is it me she's losing the love of sex with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): Stop worrying about her past relationships. She's with you now, so whatever she did or didnt do in the past is, exactly, the past. She got tired of all the sex I assume. Sex drives change.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 October 2009):
You've got past the sex at all hours stage and are settling into married life. The problem is that this can lead to difficulties. I would sit down with your wife and talk to her about it. Ask her if everything is okay and if she's happy. And really listen to her.
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